Missing and safety and heartache

Verifying someone in real life before meeting them is also a good idea

Sun Nov 03, 2019 8:19 am • 4 Replies • 2439 Views

Dom is very angry

Did he ever tell you the reason?

Sun Nov 03, 2019 8:13 am • 21 Replies • 9895 Views

Inexperienced submissives

"Experienced " is usually code for wilfully clueless and let's me know that person is to lazy to even do basic research..

Mon Oct 21, 2019 12:48 am • 21 Replies • 10055 Views

How do you handle conflict in your dynamic?

Be weary of anyone who wants to hide behind a title when it has to do with conflicts.

Sat Oct 19, 2019 8:07 am • 7 Replies • 3362 Views

What to do?

Are you so wrapped up in the BDSM dynamic that you're overlooking who someone is once the window dressing of BDSM is removed?
Ask yourself would you put up with this in a nilla relationship if the r ...

Thu Oct 03, 2019 2:15 am • 29 Replies • 12102 Views

Dominant Men vs Dominant Women -why are the rules different?

Profiles such as your's is like
painting a target on yourself for scammers.

Wed Oct 02, 2019 4:35 am • 17 Replies • 9001 Views

What to do?

D/ s or M/s
"Submitting to a Dominant means giving Him the free rein he needs to be in control."
Those are the types that
Reek of boys playing dominate
Like I've stated in another post
Dom/m ...

Wed Oct 02, 2019 4:19 am • 29 Replies • 12102 Views

Is it ok to ask?

Dom/mes may have baggage but a it's on our nature to protect that includes protecting a submissive from ourselves. "Dom/mes" who can't comprehend that real life won't always work with their rules ...

Sat Sep 28, 2019 5:38 pm • 31 Replies • 17479 Views

Is it ok to ask?

Hard limits are hard limits for a reason and any Dom/me worth the title won't break a hard limit.
If a Dom/me can't think of a punishment with breaking a hard limit they need to get out of the life ...

Sat Sep 28, 2019 6:39 am • 31 Replies • 17479 Views

Kink lifestyle attracts many bullshiters just looking for pussy

"I think that it can be generally recognised the we males are more predatory in our mate hunting activities "
Red flag much 🙄

Thu Sep 26, 2019 8:07 pm • 44 Replies • 25714 Views