Question about Master/slave dynamics

I have a saying that I annoy people with. Labels are for soup cans not people. Just like soup, the contents varies with people. The chicken noodle soup in one can, can vary widely to the contents in t ...

Fri Jan 16, 2026 3:51 am • 10 Replies • 488 Views

People using AI chat to engage (manipulate?) on meet sites

I hate Ai. But I do love spell check and grammar checkers 🤣amd suck without them! Can we all say Dyslexic fueled by coffee and wishes

There is a meme floating around that seems rather fitting for t ...

Sat Dec 20, 2025 2:21 am • 13 Replies • 739 Views

First time owning my female GF … she wants to use her

Also your a sub why the frack do you have a Femsub? when you looking for a Domme or Dom? that will do you no favours in the long run. Also your caged 346 days? ...and this is your GirlFriend? ....I'm ...

Thu Dec 11, 2025 6:00 am • 7 Replies • 497 Views

"Bitch" me

^^^^love this^^^^ its so cool when we have light bulb moments and things seem to make sense

if does sound to me by all accounts that you have indeed been "bitched" in how I would also use the term. ...

Sun Nov 30, 2025 6:43 am • 2 Replies • 349 Views

chomp! Tell me everything you like about biting!

Neck and groin after a man has cum! right on the pulse point
I do it because there’s a particular kind of silence in a man right after he comes — that soft, surrendered moment where his whole body l ...

Fri Nov 21, 2025 7:23 am • 12 Replies • 1130 Views

Seeking advice. I feel so lost in what to do.

I was reading this and would like to know what a touch exercise is please and thank you

I'm actually away with my partner, short on time so just have my phone and not my PC but if you google "touc ...

Sat Nov 15, 2025 9:57 am • 16 Replies • 1827 Views

D/s on opposite schedules

I’m with House Talion — you really do have to schedule that time. My situation over the last year has morphed into something similar to what you’re describing. My partner is FIFO, gone for weeks at a ...

Thu Nov 06, 2025 9:45 am • 4 Replies • 460 Views

Seeking advice. I feel so lost in what to do.

First, rebuild the intimacy, then add the BDSM. When the emotional and physical closeness is flowing again, the rest will follow naturally. There are so many excellent resources and exercises online f ...

Thu Nov 06, 2025 9:27 am • 16 Replies • 1827 Views

Leather cuffs

Im' in another country to you but I've found a handy trick when buying leathers for male subs, its saved me money over the years....Try the GayDom based stores! They fit, they often aren't flimsy leat ...

Wed Oct 29, 2025 4:20 am • 9 Replies • 792 Views

Which BDSM book hooked your female imagination the hardest?

“Mistress Obvious” here — I’m Domme.

I really enjoyed The Beauty Series (Rice/Roquelaure), probably because it fully embraces being a fantasy and never pretends to be anything else. It starts with ...

Wed Oct 29, 2025 4:15 am • 22 Replies • 2597 Views