Local kink events and their differences to online spaces

maybe a smaller group based Munch might be more your thing. A large crowd at public Bar might just not be your thing. i've found over the years different environments create different levels of conver ...

Sat Apr 12, 2025 12:44 pm • 8 Replies • 341 Views

Tickling

I love that there are tickle parties!

Mon Mar 24, 2025 10:02 am • 14 Replies • 1206 Views

Brat Taming Advice

All I have to say is that the silent treatment is the worst thing to do. Unless it's consented to, it's a mind fuck. I had a dom do this crap and it was because we'd do some really rough play, the. He ...

Sun Mar 16, 2025 2:30 pm • 16 Replies • 1823 Views

Brat Taming Advice

Simple way is to quit talking to them.

My not so humble opinion is brats are attention wanters. They think it is all cutesy and shit to be like that. So don't give them the attention t ...

Sun Mar 16, 2025 2:47 am • 16 Replies • 1823 Views

How did you get started.

My origin story is little odd. I didn't have the normal childhood. I was way to young and way to confuzzled. However I wouldn't change it, if I could.

I remember always feeling different and gush ...

Sun Mar 02, 2025 2:14 am • 17 Replies • 1712 Views

Slaves finding Slaves for their Master

When I first became poly with my primary (not poly partnered now). I did get him to sorta help. He just sent me links to profiles of people he'd stumbled on, that he thought may fit "our" criteria s ...

Wed Feb 26, 2025 1:49 am • 17 Replies • 2204 Views

Tattoos

Have you considered a Triskelion. The triskelion has become one of the most recognizable symbols for the kink community but it's also throughout history with other meanings so can be easily overlooke ...

Thu Feb 20, 2025 12:14 am • 11 Replies • 508 Views

Galentine's Day," "Valentine's Day," "Kink V-Day," or "None.

None for me! I'd prefer such "romantic" gestures are done on a day that isn't prompted by a date that is drowned in commercialism. I'd prefer I'm forward in your thoughts because I mean something to y ...

Sat Feb 15, 2025 4:07 am • 2 Replies • 191 Views

Submission or Domination??

For me its a sex act (action), not a role.

Sat Feb 15, 2025 4:02 am • 15 Replies • 1320 Views

BULL - Anyone Have Experience With One?

(me)Being Femdom bulls are used a lot with cucking (cuckoldry) they also are frequently used with sissy play . It's not overly my thing so something i steer clear off. While I am poly and Femdom, I do ...

Wed Feb 05, 2025 1:57 am • 16 Replies • 1730 Views