Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

I wasn't suggesting Domme women "settle" oh hell no! NO ONE SHOULD SETTLE THAT GOES FOR DOM/ME, SUB. VANILLA or the garden gate. I was just trying to politely word, that the method was good to fill th ...

Wed Jan 06, 2021 11:53 pm • 47 Replies • 19813 Views

App?

apps are designed to be used on a small screen, not the large screen of a laptop or desktop computer. While great they do actually tend to "shorten" conversation and site use. The cage is mobile/cell ...

Wed Jan 06, 2021 4:06 am • 5 Replies • 2531 Views

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

Lucky for me I don't care if I'm popular because this post will put me in that category LOL but heh! I'm known for popping fantasy bubbles.

I don't think its so much that we are "rare" there are ac ...

Wed Jan 06, 2021 1:12 am • 47 Replies • 19813 Views

Male Chastity Devices

@KotaRello​(sub male){08281985} you might know this already but a squeeze bottle with a nozzle (think sauce bottle) is great to add to your cleaning routine. You can "squirt" water easily into the ai ...

Tue Jan 05, 2021 12:43 am • 23 Replies • 16816 Views

Bondage suggestions for a sub with chronic back pain.

Bumping for our resident Riggers.

Fri Jan 01, 2021 5:39 am • 8 Replies • 4540 Views

Do you think...

it wonderful to see the younger ones having it easier. I still remember the sleazy newspaper style contact magazines where you hoped in hell you left with your skin.... after making decisions based on ...

Thu Dec 31, 2020 5:34 am • 4 Replies • 2293 Views

Books to Introduce her to FLR

Thanks for explaining and understanding I wasn't out to get you but more trying to help. I'm on my cell and hate replying on it but have looked at the book when someone you love is kinky. It won't so ...

Tue Dec 29, 2020 10:22 am • 3 Replies • 2319 Views

Books to Introduce her to FLR

I have a suggestion, don't use any books and use your own words. Your own expression. your own passion. Voice your desires, needs and wants. You know YOU better than one else. you know your partner be ...

Tue Dec 29, 2020 8:30 am • 3 Replies • 2319 Views

Naming ceremony for my Penis - ideas!

aarsim if its not personal or private what name was decided and how did your ceremony/birthday go?

Sun Dec 27, 2020 6:17 am • 16 Replies • 7147 Views

Responding

It never hurts to reply.
I don't use this method but I know several Dom/mes/subs that have a cut and paste letters pre-typed on why that person isn't for them.
A reply doesn't need to have great d ...

Sun Dec 27, 2020 6:14 am • 18 Replies • 6318 Views