Finding Someone Who Does NOT Blog and is (Not In The Personals) AnyMore.

You probably can't change the title line but do try: Maybe Cage Staff can help, at the very least they can zap the post and you can (before they do) copy what you wrote and put it on a new thread) ...

Sat Apr 13, 2024 2:59 am • 6 Replies • 371 Views

Exploring D/s and TPE with My Partner | Seeking Advice and Guidance

Never in a dynamic. I was always a "fly by night" session person, out the door the next day. But I can speak to introducing partners to this. First make sure they're into it to begin with. No Good ...

Fri Apr 12, 2024 8:11 am • 2 Replies • 243 Views

Banking Curiosity

I see the D as the banker and the s as the investor.

The s invests herself/himself in her/his D. But he/she also has the responsibility of taking her/his investment and expanding on it.

A Win/wi ...

Thu Apr 11, 2024 6:27 am • 7 Replies • 293 Views

Primal and CNC Scenes: Im a newbie

What everyone said above.

But I might add, it also depends upon what you mean by Predator/prey CNC. A little rough and tumble in the trees, or running through the house for some consensual wrestl ...

Thu Apr 11, 2024 6:20 am • 8 Replies • 358 Views

Primal and CNC Scenes: Im a newbie

You expressed yourself quite clearly. No worries there. As for the CNC and Primal play indeed as posted above, not something to dive in from Jump... Or not without thinking it through and communica ...

Wed Apr 10, 2024 11:27 pm • 8 Replies • 358 Views

The Cage Appreciation Thread

I like it. As always a mix of decent people and not so decent people... Similar to anywhere else online be it of BDSM nature or not.

Certainly better to me than "social media" platforms w ...

Wed Apr 10, 2024 7:46 am • 11 Replies • 553 Views

What is your ....?

I don't put any stock in the zodiac or horror-scopes but just by the layout of the calendar mine would be Scorpio and best bod part.. again the eyes have it.

Wed Apr 10, 2024 4:08 am • 19 Replies • 371 Views

Is mutual attraction necessary for you during CNC play? (thoughts on "forced" bisexuality

Some need the physical attraction to have the "best results" but it isn't required. I have never been "attracted "to toys to tell the truth.

In the end, for the most part it's an individual prefer ...

Tue Apr 09, 2024 11:18 am • 13 Replies • 622 Views

Re: Decisions

Decisions to be made. Should I take some time away from BDSM? Should I just leave the lifestyle in total and just live a vanilla life? I cant seem to ever find a suitable sub. To being ghosted time an ...

Tue Apr 09, 2024 6:34 am • 4 Replies • 221 Views

Authenticity

Any and all thoughts? Ohh Kayy...

Sorry to be a buzz-kill but that would be my business and anyone who instructs me to do something like that (meaning their registering an opinion to which all ar ...

Tue Apr 09, 2024 1:22 am • 17 Replies • 818 Views