SubFrenzy

Nobody's yet mentioned one of the real pitfalls of sub frenzy ---nude pictures.
I've met several subs along the way who let their enthusiasm to experience a D/s dynamic overwhelm common sense abou ...

Fri Mar 06, 2020 4:31 pm • 16 Replies • 7622 Views

Willingness to post profile pictures

"need to build up my confidence" ..... how you were raised made you be passive....general tone of fear and uncertainty in your posts.

Are you sure you belong on the 'D' side of the slash? Those ar ...

Sun Feb 16, 2020 3:47 pm • 26 Replies • 8428 Views

Home-made toys? Yay/Nay? Suggestions?

One homemade toy that gets high marks from its user/victim is a four foot piece of ordinary electric cord, doubled, and taped to a piece of broom handle ...We think of it as a mini-whip, and it is s ...

Thu Feb 13, 2020 10:40 pm • 19 Replies • 8181 Views

Lingerie

Flip said it beautifully --the whole object of lingerie is to arouse --both the admirer and the wearer, who should feel how arousing she is, and how slutty his lust makes her feel. both on display in ...

Sun Feb 09, 2020 5:36 am • 53 Replies • 17122 Views

thuddy or stingy

Interesting thread here....
No one has yet mentioned the online limitations on this choice. For sub without much upper body strength, lots of thuddy things are difficult to self-wield when required ...

Thu Feb 06, 2020 1:54 am • 17 Replies • 9419 Views

Need help

One possible solution to feeling protected is to consider online-only submission.
That may involve sex, but not of the in-person variety you may need to avoid.
A good online Dom should develop cari ...

Fri Jan 03, 2020 10:41 pm • 13 Replies • 6738 Views

A Beginner into exhibitionism

A great thread, Pumpkin...!
I don't think anyone has yet mentioned flashing photos. Since you have a friend, he/she can pose you in a restaurant with your tits flashing--extra points if there are ...

Wed Jan 01, 2020 6:29 pm • 15 Replies • 9538 Views

Where would be a good club to visit around San Antonio Texas

I googled " San Antonio Fetish Clubs" and got two pages of directories and listings...
Hope it is a glorious visit,l a LONG way from home in the Maritimes! --rick

Mon Dec 23, 2019 5:06 am • 2 Replies • 3070 Views

Travelling abroad

Hi Bunnie. How exciting to be contemplating such an adventure ! And living where you do, we are not talking about a short hour or two in the air, I suspect.

My vote would be NOT to meet at the ai ...

Thu Dec 12, 2019 3:39 pm • 7 Replies • 1905 Views

Meeting first Dom from here

Hi Ms NSG--

Angel Wings hit it just right , if you are close enough to work an in person meet.

There are some tried and true things that can weed out some of the less-than-forthright Scammerdo ...

Wed Dec 11, 2019 8:53 pm • 21 Replies • 10826 Views