Paid Dominatrixes

Now before you get all pissy and moany about what you thought this thread was going to be about: It isn't.

So sit back and relax and read a bit....

Settled down now? good. Here goes:

The w ...

Mon Jan 19, 2026 5:22 am • 4 Replies • 553 Views

Question for all ….

Me personally? I don't do poetry as I am not that smart about reading.

However, I think it is great to hear you are taking that step! Good for you!

Two pieces of advice though:

1 ...

Fri Jan 16, 2026 4:19 pm • 4 Replies • 447 Views

Question about Master/slave dynamics

The use of labels is, again, a whole other argument. Which will most likely never be settled.

As Obi-Wan says in "Return of the Jedi": Everything is true, from a certain point of view.

You ...

Thu Jan 15, 2026 3:40 pm • 12 Replies • 1022 Views

Question about Master/slave dynamics

Like any other relationship in the Lifestyle, it all depends on what the people in a given relationship defines it as.

For myself, A D/s relationship evolves into a M/s one once the collar is a ...

Thu Jan 15, 2026 3:02 pm • 12 Replies • 1022 Views

Question about Master/slave dynamics

You are being told a great amount of pure crap.

There is no such thing as "no limits" slave. That bullshit is started by morons who have no idea of what they are doing and do not care. Abusers p ...

Thu Jan 15, 2026 2:38 pm • 12 Replies • 1022 Views

Pee Drinking

So here is a question:

Do males enjoy drinking pee more than females?

Sat Jan 10, 2026 4:08 pm • 18 Replies • 8012 Views

I'm completely new to all this, just asking a question.

There is one very important foundation to all BDSM play and that is *Consent*.

This!

Thu Jan 01, 2026 1:40 am • 15 Replies • 1098 Views

What Do People Think About Fetishes?

The main thing is to understand what is a kink and what is a fetish. Way too many people confuse the two.

Fetishes drive you

Kinks are something you can do but can live without.

Wed Dec 31, 2025 3:28 am • 14 Replies • 955 Views

A question

And there is the main argument I have had with a great deal of people over the decades of my involvement in the lifestyle:

"Once you take the physical out of the relationship, D/s still works". ...

Sun Dec 28, 2025 10:34 pm • 9 Replies • 731 Views

People using AI chat to engage (manipulate?) on meet sites

This is both sad and funny at the same time.

I'll get to the latter part in a bit.

First off: I find it somewhat unsurprising. As I have progressed in the lifestyle, I have seen people of bot ...

Fri Dec 19, 2025 9:18 pm • 15 Replies • 1096 Views