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Collaring Practices and Ceremonies

Just out of interest, did those relationships endure?

The last I heard yes.

The former put me on block years ago on fet, but I see mutual friends still mention them from time to time.

The lat ...

Wed Aug 21, 2024 11:34 pm • 10 Replies • 3320 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Collaring Practices and Ceremonies

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Collaring Practices and Ceremonies

Full blown ceremonies for collarings were a big thing back in the day. I was present at a few and purposely excluded from one.

The reason I was walled out from that one was because I was the real ...

Wed Aug 21, 2024 10:13 pm • 10 Replies • 3320 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Collaring Practices and Ceremonies

253

Experimental obedience

Go to butler school and then get a job as one.

Wed Aug 21, 2024 1:53 pm • 8 Replies • 4239 Views

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TopekaDom

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Gay BDSM

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Experimental obedience

254

Under Consideration

If you look at a D/s contract/collar as a wedding vow/ring, then the consideration collar is the engagement ring.

And look at how many of those have been broken off.

Now maybe s types asking for ...

Tue Aug 20, 2024 5:45 pm • 7 Replies • 2351 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Under Consideration

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Under Consideration

I've always been of the opinion that consideration collars are a big stinking pile of donkey shit.

What they mean (but not always) is the Dom/me can't make up their minds or, in some cases, have a ...

Tue Aug 20, 2024 2:56 pm • 7 Replies • 2351 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Under Consideration

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Your Turn Ladies

I'm going to need more popcorn ??

Mon Aug 19, 2024 9:50 pm • 33 Replies • 5584 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Your Turn Ladies

257

genderfication

In reality, the forum list is meant for "safe spaces" to discuss aspects of the lifestyle pertaining to a given area.

Now the way Cage is set up, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. The ...

Mon Aug 19, 2024 5:32 pm • 70 Replies • 10935 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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genderfication

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genderfication

lambson,

I said the forum list needs an overhaul.

However, there are topics that do affect a given gender:

"Do FemDoms (I do prefer the Old School "Domme") feel threatened by overly aggressi ...

Mon Aug 19, 2024 5:12 pm • 70 Replies • 10935 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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genderfication

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genderfication

Lycan,

My response fits in with the OP because I see it as pressure from certain political influences and religious institutions, gender has become a rather hot topic of late.

They want us to ...

Mon Aug 19, 2024 4:38 pm • 70 Replies • 10935 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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genderfication

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genderfication

The main problem is we are seeing a sliding backwards of gender freedom, particularly here in the US. Current political and religious extremes are trying to say "Women should be barefoot (that part ...

Mon Aug 19, 2024 2:55 pm • 70 Replies • 10935 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

genderfication