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Posts by TopekaDom(dom male){Chaos }

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Experimental obedience

Go to butler school and then get a job as one.

Wed Aug 21, 2024 1:53 pm • 8 Replies • 4582 Views

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TopekaDom

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Gay BDSM

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Experimental obedience

262

Under Consideration

If you look at a D/s contract/collar as a wedding vow/ring, then the consideration collar is the engagement ring.

And look at how many of those have been broken off.

Now maybe s types asking for ...

Tue Aug 20, 2024 5:45 pm • 7 Replies • 2723 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Under Consideration

263

Under Consideration

I've always been of the opinion that consideration collars are a big stinking pile of donkey shit.

What they mean (but not always) is the Dom/me can't make up their minds or, in some cases, have a ...

Tue Aug 20, 2024 2:56 pm • 7 Replies • 2723 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Under Consideration

264

Your Turn Ladies

I'm going to need more popcorn ??

Mon Aug 19, 2024 9:50 pm • 33 Replies • 6328 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Your Turn Ladies

265

genderfication

In reality, the forum list is meant for "safe spaces" to discuss aspects of the lifestyle pertaining to a given area.

Now the way Cage is set up, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. The ...

Mon Aug 19, 2024 5:32 pm • 70 Replies • 12485 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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genderfication

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genderfication

lambson,

I said the forum list needs an overhaul.

However, there are topics that do affect a given gender:

"Do FemDoms (I do prefer the Old School "Domme") feel threatened by overly aggressi ...

Mon Aug 19, 2024 5:12 pm • 70 Replies • 12485 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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genderfication

267

genderfication

Lycan,

My response fits in with the OP because I see it as pressure from certain political influences and religious institutions, gender has become a rather hot topic of late.

They want us to ...

Mon Aug 19, 2024 4:38 pm • 70 Replies • 12485 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

genderfication

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genderfication

The main problem is we are seeing a sliding backwards of gender freedom, particularly here in the US. Current political and religious extremes are trying to say "Women should be barefoot (that part ...

Mon Aug 19, 2024 2:55 pm • 70 Replies • 12485 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

genderfication

269

Servitude

Servitude does not necessitate ownership. It can (and should be) inspired by leadership.

Sun Aug 18, 2024 4:52 pm • 5 Replies • 1911 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Servitude

270

Servitude

In my not so humble opinion, servitude is becoming a lost art.

People want to do the cool, chic things like spankings and rope dresses and the like, but the scoff at real serving.

Bringing coffe ...

Sun Aug 18, 2024 12:38 am • 5 Replies • 1911 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Servitude