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What’s the makeup here?

I'm just a guy named Bob

But Bob isn't my real name.

Mon Aug 25, 2025 7:39 pm • 17 Replies • 10272 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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What’s the makeup here?

How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

I'm just wondering if you're serious or just stirring up drama.

And here I sit, unsurprised, you can not tell the difference.

Mon Aug 25, 2025 2:42 am • 41 Replies • 17630 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

This may sound simple, maybe even sarcastic (heaven forbid), but, how do you deal with fake/insta doms?
Don't be an insta sub.

And there it is

Victim blaming.

Imagine that.

Sun Aug 24, 2025 3:32 pm • 41 Replies • 17630 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

if you were really concerned, why not post your thoughts instead of coming across as sarcastic?

Good lord.

Has it been that long since I have posted?

Thu Aug 21, 2025 4:22 am • 41 Replies • 17630 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

It is utterly hilarious the amount of Doms replying on this thread!

Thu Aug 21, 2025 4:10 am • 41 Replies • 17630 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

owning a m-f couple

Really it is up the people involved.

Owning a couple (be it MF, FF, MM, or what have you) is literally twice as much effort as owning a single property. Yes you can designate power to one or ...

Mon Aug 11, 2025 6:42 pm • 4 Replies • 3602 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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owning a m-f couple

BDSM Checklist

Funny how people are more than checklists

Mon Aug 04, 2025 2:28 am • 7 Replies • 4480 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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BDSM Checklist

Blackmail

I can see how it could work. Suppose for example that the sub posts pictures on kink sites, but there are some they consider too explicit and only allow their Dom to see. The blackmail threat is posti ...

Sun Jul 06, 2025 3:48 am • 16 Replies • 9230 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Blackmail

Blackmail confuses me because I see some people talk about how if they don't comply then their blackmail gets released. Sometimes it's to a select group off people (I'm assuming involved in that kink ...

Sat Jul 05, 2025 4:52 pm • 16 Replies • 9230 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Blackmail

Yeah , but that is $10 I can spend on a new anal plug though

Fri Jul 04, 2025 10:36 pm • 16 Replies • 9230 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Blackmail