Calling him daddy

I struggled to call someone Daddy, lol the guilt I felt was daft, as I have and amazing relationships with my Dad and still call him daddy at times. I didn't want to ever disrespect him in and way.... ...

Tue Apr 04, 2023 4:14 am • 33 Replies • 6005 Views

Calling him daddy

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First and foremost is that a Dom and A SUB both decide on what a sub calls their Dom.

This is all part of getting to know someone way before it gets to this level. No Dom should be ask ...

Tue Apr 04, 2023 4:08 am • 33 Replies • 6005 Views

Never had sex, where do I start with the community?

Ok it's up to the person to have sex with people as many times as they want to that's fine
And OK will be honest but some people are not open minded so they won't take you seriously
Also wanted to s ...

Mon Apr 03, 2023 8:40 am • 18 Replies • 2938 Views

Never had sex, where do I start with the community?

J I've had a total of 3 sexual partners in my life. I'm 41. Some people are weirded out by it and some think that I'm some kind of saint or nun. Just be honest with folks; I find that helps. And ...

Mon Apr 03, 2023 8:20 am • 18 Replies • 2938 Views

BAN SILENT BLOCKS!!!.. the site needs to be updated.

OP is a real one and a good guy. But ER I totally disagree with you. Being a female on this site can be sort of overwhelming. Sometimes we gotta block or ignore people to just deal with staying her ...

Mon Apr 03, 2023 7:22 am • 34 Replies • 6512 Views

What is "Sane?"

well crap, I have no idea what sane is. Never met a sane person. I imagine they are quite boring. I'd focus more on boundaries and consent, as well as clear communication. But I don't really know ...

Fri Mar 24, 2023 4:57 am • 17 Replies • 2598 Views

Anyone seen character dynamics in a show or movie that made something click?

This post got me thinking. I don't have a dominant bone in my body, but I'm self sufficient, weird, and kind of an a-hole. My reluctant 'hero' is Eminem from 8 Mile. I watch that movie at least twi ...

Fri Mar 24, 2023 4:53 am • 10 Replies • 1226 Views

Drawing the line for Taboos

I am not polite; I just tell those people to go away. There are a lot of stupid people on this site who will try you as a submissive female. If I took the time to counsel every jerk who sent me a me ...

Tue Mar 21, 2023 2:47 am • 20 Replies • 4349 Views

Live-In Slaves

No shade, but I'd be extremely careful with this. I mean, if you are going to try this, have a back-up plan and another place to live and cash on deck. Don't let yourself be isolated from your famil ...

Wed Mar 08, 2023 2:59 am • 32 Replies • 9082 Views

Avoiding stalking, cyberstalking

Cyberstalking and just regular ol' stalking is unfortunately par for the course for any woman on the Internet. It's not even a kink site thing. And come to think of it, I've had stalkers from work a ...

Wed Mar 08, 2023 2:18 am • 31 Replies • 5614 Views