Pampering

Great topic, Bunnie. Pampering is something I enjoy from both sides of the slash (benies of being Switch! 😉). I'm thoroughly happy to physically a Dominant with the aforementioned activities, massages ...

Tue Jun 11, 2019 3:30 am • 13 Replies • 7525 Views

Old dogs, new tricks?

Hey! Watch the 'old' comments...some of us resemble those words!!! Just kiddin of course, Dear. Excellent Forum entry, especially for a newer person, even more so for someone without community experie ...

Fri May 31, 2019 4:55 am • 10 Replies • 6517 Views

What does your Dom call you?

A little Switch weigh in here... especially in fluid relationships (although thinking about it, I guess actually other than very highly defined contract driven pairings most relationships are fluid to ...

Sat Apr 20, 2019 6:18 pm • 41 Replies • 21010 Views

Question for both submissives and dominants about communication

Thank you for the kind words Vortexa. Perhaps it's my Switchedness, but entirely possible it's just that I'm older than dirt!
- Henna

Sun Apr 14, 2019 6:31 am • 42 Replies • 21969 Views

Question for both submissives and dominants about communication

Ooh, quite happy to weigh in here. A bit of background, I identify Switch but am primarily Domme leaning and also bi so enjoy both males and females.

For me personally, (and I get that this is my ...

Sat Apr 13, 2019 11:02 pm • 42 Replies • 21969 Views

Protection

I'm guessing you are asking about the more formal protection, like with a collar statement, is that right, dances?

As the other folks mentioned, talking with subs is a good way to learn about who i ...

Sat Apr 13, 2019 10:39 pm • 21 Replies • 9627 Views

WE ARE LIVE

@MasterBear, nice job!!! Very informative, well put together website. Minor bit of feedback would be to consider more font changes (although too many are worse than not changing them up). Maybe having ...

Sat Mar 30, 2019 10:47 pm • 17 Replies • 7803 Views

BDSM related to healing?

Totally onboard with MasterBear's take on it. There are different levels of healing, different kinds of therapy. And for some of us it doesn't have to be with a serious relationship, as long as you ar ...

Thu Feb 21, 2019 5:54 pm • 6 Replies • 4186 Views

Difference of age

Henna the Dinosaur weighing in.... when I was a younger person I tended to only date (frequently a euphemism for have sex with) people older (and in some cases much older) than myself. I think that it ...

Thu Feb 14, 2019 4:30 am • 47 Replies • 20587 Views

Is BDSM spiritual for you?

No offense to anyone that chooses to worship in that way but personally I'd have a difficult time with considering any other human a god. The best, most secure, together, intuitive Dominant in the ent ...

Thu Feb 14, 2019 2:29 am • 15 Replies • 9281 Views