Subs with mental illness

Most people that have mental illness in this community do so usually for one of 2 reasons. 1. They have been abused by someone in a previous relationship whether it’s romantic, or a family member or a ...

Sat Jun 15, 2024 5:47 am • 31 Replies • 2883 Views

Question for submissives relating protective tendencies and being in a dynamic

No. I'm protective as a woman, mother, partner, friend, animal owner.

I cannot think of an example where a (dominant) partner has overridden that protectivenes or that it has has been negated as I ...

Thu Jun 13, 2024 12:15 am • 12 Replies • 1167 Views

Anybody else....

Ohhhhhhh.... That's a brilliant function. I never knew. Thank you both! X

Mon Jun 10, 2024 12:38 am • 8 Replies • 553 Views

Anybody else....

.... Ever scan the forums/blogs, and read something that just makes you go 'ugh'. But you can't help that curiosity thing to go and look at the profile to see what kind of idiot you're dealing with.
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Sat Jun 08, 2024 7:05 am • 8 Replies • 553 Views

Australia

Where in Australia?

I didn't realise you were in Oz too Bunnie. 😊 X

Thu Jun 06, 2024 1:03 am • 5 Replies • 671 Views

Not listening to boundries?

What everyone else has said. I would advise your friend also to trust her gut. If the behaviours are basically shitty, and make her feel shitty, then guess what, it's shitty behaviour. I have experien ...

Thu Jun 06, 2024 1:02 am • 11 Replies • 1041 Views

Australia

You might be better off looking on fetlife to find places/meets etc. There are very few Aussies here on the cage. You can easily search for events for your state/city etc in fet.

Tue Jun 04, 2024 11:16 pm • 5 Replies • 671 Views

Dominant Profile Names

I’ve always liked the name of Adams first wife, Lilith.

Oh dear. This made me laugh, and probably shouldn't have.

Fri May 31, 2024 12:29 am • 40 Replies • 3154 Views

Friends With Benefits

I think it can vary hugely. But it usually implies a lesser degree of involvement, commitment, even care.

I've enjoyed relationships which are FWB in nature, some of which provided great connection ...

Thu May 30, 2024 6:25 am • 19 Replies • 1777 Views

Hand To Throat

Good question!

For me, I think it's the vulnerability. The trust. The threat/fear. That hand could do so much damage. And it's a point of submission to allow a man to touch you in that way.

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Thu May 30, 2024 6:22 am • 9 Replies • 971 Views