Specifying 'new to lifestyle' in your search

On the back of a recent exchange, what do you all think about ads/profiles expressing a preference for someone new to the lifestyle?

As an experienced submissive, my take is that it's often inexpe ...

Fri Nov 17, 2023 1:10 am • 2 Replies • 689 Views

Finish The Sentence (*New Game*)

Last night, I was feeling so horny that I went to the kitchen....

.... And raided every fucking drawer trying to find the spare batteries to replace the worn out ones in my vibrator.....

Thu Nov 09, 2023 11:13 pm • 23 Replies • 1523 Views

Subs: How do you feel...

Any feelings invoked for me would come from context. What the profile says. How that person feels to me. And what our interaction tells me. I come back to the point I made on the other thread: we all ...

Thu Nov 09, 2023 11:07 pm • 11 Replies • 1676 Views

First Date Horror Stories

This is a great thread... hilarious, and helps me realize i am not alone in this.

i've had quite a few, and they stayed "first date" because, well, they were "horror dates" and i'm not into horror ...

Thu Nov 09, 2023 10:56 pm • 50 Replies • 6566 Views

The Dom Construction Kit

I have this year created and run 4 MASTERclass (Aim to be better ) workshops in person with a group of individuals some new to the scene, some that have been around for a while, all agreed it was a gr ...

Wed Nov 08, 2023 8:59 am • 14 Replies • 2372 Views

First Date Horror Stories

You know, I've never understood this. If you have any intention to meet folk for real, or indeed any intention to develop a relationship of any form long term, why would you mislead in such a way?! ...

Wed Nov 08, 2023 5:51 am • 50 Replies • 6566 Views

How do you feel?

Perhaps it is, Hekate. Maybe not wanting someone's leftovers?
You two will have a blast mid Nov. Pics or it didn't happen! 😉😉😉

But we are all the products of our past. Those experiences made us wh ...

Tue Nov 07, 2023 10:25 pm • 16 Replies • 1897 Views

How do you feel?

Surely not as much of a turn off as the never ending stream of stock images of 'ds poses' that people post constantly on their profiles?!

Tue Nov 07, 2023 9:56 pm • 16 Replies • 1897 Views

First Date Horror Stories

Many years ago I met a woman in a chat room. We chatted , flirted, got closer ! Exchanged photos all good !! Arranged a meeting exchanged car registration numbers etc etc xx!!!

The day arrived I go ...

Tue Nov 07, 2023 9:32 pm • 50 Replies • 6566 Views

First Date Horror Stories

On the face of it an interesting enough chap. A good bit of online banter. Knew I was a switch but that I had a submissive playmate, and was seeking a dominant.

Met in a London pub. Going okay til ...

Tue Nov 07, 2023 8:23 am • 50 Replies • 6566 Views