Why

It may simply be that it's a quick and easy way for a person to have identified (for their own reasons) that they do not wish to engage any further. End the matter instantly. As I am regularly told, i ...

Mon Sep 16, 2024 11:00 pm • 25 Replies • 1855 Views

What's your dynamic

My "Dream domme" relationship would mix romance with kink, and intimacy with total power exchange. It would, in many cases be like a vanilla romantic relationship. We would be best friends, share la ...

Fri Aug 23, 2024 4:16 am • 22 Replies • 2065 Views

Collaring Practices and Ceremonies

Just out of interest, did those relationships endure?

The last I heard yes.

The former put me on block years ago on fet, but I see mutual friends still mention them from time to time.

The lat ...

Wed Aug 21, 2024 11:40 pm • 10 Replies • 1107 Views

Collaring Practices and Ceremonies

Full blown ceremonies for collarings were a big thing back in the day. I was present at a few and purposely excluded from one.

The reason I was walled out from that one was because I was the real ...

Wed Aug 21, 2024 11:28 pm • 10 Replies • 1107 Views

Experimental obedience

I understand where you are coming from with this. It is something I try to do too, to exercise my submissive facet when I don't have a dominant in my life. Whilst there is certainly some truth to the ...

Wed Aug 21, 2024 10:37 pm • 8 Replies • 773 Views

Is it weird to want a relationship first before diving into dynamics?

^ Great advice

Not weird. You do you.

Wed Aug 21, 2024 6:20 am • 6 Replies • 667 Views

Age Is Just A Number

What is bee-keeping age please? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zp0N5PJxamE

Hahaha, you're welcome!

Laughing. Thank you.

Sun Aug 18, 2024 11:00 pm • 41 Replies • 4023 Views

Deceit detection

What measures do you take to analyse and assess the person you are talking with?

I don't mean casual chat. I've spoken to all manner of men and women over the years, and I couldn't give a toss who ...

Sun Aug 18, 2024 2:37 am • 7 Replies • 607 Views

Servitude

I'm not sure I understand the original post....

But I think servitude is linked to obedience. And I agree with TD in that its not necessarily linked to the Sex and kink and 'fun' sides of things.
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Sun Aug 18, 2024 12:55 am • 5 Replies • 597 Views

Let's talk rimming

I dont see the same people who complained about this post not being inclusive complaing about the same thing on other posts not being inclusive.

Check out the breasts post. Although perhaps not the ...

Sun Aug 18, 2024 12:46 am • 62 Replies • 6772 Views