The Sting and the Sanctuary

Wrestling with My Need for Both Brutal Discipline and Gentle Protection

There’s a fault line running through my submissive heart.
On one side lives the raw, visceral hunger to be taken in hand—hai ...

Fri Jun 20, 2025 1:44 pm • 3 Replies • 3286 Views

The Weight of Wanting

Being a plus size submissive means carrying more than just the weight of my body — it means carrying the fear that I’ll never be enough for the one I ache to serve.

I give everything. My obedience. ...

Wed Jun 18, 2025 11:36 pm • 8 Replies • 3657 Views

New implement help and recommendations

I am looking for a new cane or any kind of good implement that will help give a lot of marks and leave good bruising, I am focusing on a sturdy cane, all my past ones have broken and I need help pleas ...

Tue Jun 17, 2025 9:37 pm • 4 Replies • 2521 Views

Addressing needs as a submissive

Thank you. I am very emotional so free writing definitely helps and then I can revisit it. No contract.

Fri Mar 14, 2025 6:40 pm • 11 Replies • 6110 Views

Addressing needs as a submissive

Yes, we can discuss things but I almost must be respectful and not take charge in the conversation or it’s hard for me to speak my mind unfiltered because I always try to be in that submissive role an ...

Fri Mar 14, 2025 6:21 pm • 11 Replies • 6110 Views

Addressing needs as a submissive

How to you express and start a conversation with your Dom, that your needs are not being met?
-I don’t want to come off as ungrateful, selfish, or bratty and am confused on how to have that discussio ...

Fri Mar 14, 2025 5:21 pm • 11 Replies • 6110 Views

How to deal with Loneliness as a Submissive

Been feeling very lonely lately, and wanted to reach out and see what other submissives do and some ways to deal with loneliness, and redirecting your thoughts in a positive way.

Sat Nov 30, 2024 6:03 am • 10 Replies • 3274 Views

being a sensitive submissive can be very hard

Hello
Just wanted to post this to possibly have some discussions about the challenges of being an emotional submissive, and caring alot. At most times all I want to do is take care of others, please ...

Sat Nov 23, 2024 6:26 pm • 7 Replies • 1773 Views

Question for Doms

I really appreciate and enjoyed all of your answers. Thank you so much for your time.

Sat Jul 06, 2024 1:45 am • 12 Replies • 8290 Views

Question for Doms

Just a submissive girl, trying to be, and do better to please her Dom.
Doms,
What are some of the things that you love best when your sub or subs do for you?
what are some good surprises from subs ...

Fri Jul 05, 2024 4:29 am • 12 Replies • 8290 Views