The Vetting Process

This is a great topic, I agree 100% about that loss of personal referencing. I was the same in my formative time, mostly getting to know people through word of mouth, at munches etc whereas now with s ...

Sun May 15, 2016 4:51 am • 5 Replies • 14077 Views

Trying It On Yourself

I would have to agree that for the most part while you can test an item you cannot ever really simulate full use and that is certainly no replacement anyway for the care and attention during play. Of ...

Fri May 13, 2016 6:03 am • 10 Replies • 14640 Views

Male Dominants & Misogyny

For me this is a simple one to answer, there are misogynistic Doms and sexist Doms as well as abusive Doms.  BDSM is a microcosm of mainstream society after all so anything that exists there exists fo ...

Fri May 13, 2016 4:34 am • 3 Replies • 6506 Views

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

I have been in and around the bdsm "lifestyle" over 20 years and only ever known one couple who actually got the full time 24/7 thing to work, they are still together so it can be done. For most of us ...

Fri Apr 22, 2016 2:10 pm • 18 Replies • 25532 Views

Portable Toy Bags

I like the hardcase plastic instrument cases, they come in many sizes, have the adjustable foam insert and are also lockable which is handy to keep curious eyes out. They are also less interesting to ...

Fri Apr 22, 2016 1:26 pm • 18 Replies • 22189 Views