BDSM Forum

Posts by SubStanChill(sub male)

Search found 29 matches

Are you Submissive....

- SUBMIT
- REVERE
- SUCCOR
- PLEASE

Fri Oct 17, 2025 12:34 am • 2 Replies • 4137 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

Are you Submissive....

Humiliation kink

Pure Conjecture but my personal hypothesis is that it’s Pavlovian, stemming back to conditioning in teen years. Back then two things were true, I was the most insecure I had ever been, and my sex driv ...

Sun Oct 12, 2025 5:47 am • 18 Replies • 4380 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Humiliation kink

Pros and Cons of Becoming a Prejac

@Darkquant , I think it depends on which route you take lowering it, how severely you reduce it, and then what options are available to you to remedy it.

You may use a conditioning method to lowe ...

Fri Oct 10, 2025 9:55 pm • 11 Replies • 2561 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Pros and Cons of Becoming a Prejac

@Darkquant There a bunch of factors that can influence stamina, both physical, behavioral, and psychological.

Fri Oct 10, 2025 9:14 pm • 11 Replies • 2561 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Pros and Cons of Becoming a Prejac

MissBonnie(dom female){oz}

Thank you mam , I deeply appreciate your guidance on this. I would never commit to something like this without discussing it with my remarkable wife. At the end of the day I live to be the partner she ...

Fri Oct 10, 2025 4:56 am • 11 Replies • 2561 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Pros and Cons of Becoming a Prejac

Considering Reducing my stamina. The idea of being actually unable to last more than 30 seconds is very arousing. But I don’t know if I should go down this road. Not sure if there would be a way to go ...

Thu Oct 09, 2025 9:52 pm • 11 Replies • 2561 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Pros and Cons of Becoming a Prejac

I have a nasty torment for my hubby

If I were in his cage (shoes), I think the hottest thing about this specific aspect of the torment is that 1. He’s NEVER had a BJ from anyone (if I understood you right.)
2. That you actually really ...

Thu Oct 09, 2025 9:07 pm • 12 Replies • 7419 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Femdom

Topic

I have a nasty torment for my hubby

My kinks are beginning to scare me

Wise move to pause and take a breath. I’m not saying you should or shouldn’t do it, but I do think that it’s worth considering the additional risk this adds to your relationship.

For me right now ...

Thu Oct 09, 2025 8:58 pm • 12 Replies • 2521 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Femdom

Topic

My kinks are beginning to scare me

Selfishness cured by chastity

I know what you mean. Although, I don’t think selfish is the correct way to describe, as much as distracted and exhausted. Like me, you probably aren’t a selfish person in general, but when we’re not ...

Thu Oct 09, 2025 8:41 pm • 2 Replies • 919 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Selfishness cured by chastity