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Just A Touch

I don’t recall the exact moment. But I do remember a year in my early 20s when I just started experimenting with everything sexual. I had a couple of partners who were open to different forms of play. ...

Wed Aug 26, 2026 6:28 pm • 8 Replies • 724 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Just A Touch

Hello all

Welcome

Mon Aug 24, 2026 11:40 pm • 6 Replies • 278 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Introductions

Topic

Hello all

Is BDSM an induced illusion or a concealed reality?

I think you’re being a bit vague to the point that the body of the post doesn’t seem to align with the title.

Can you clarify what you’re getting at?

Mon Aug 24, 2026 10:42 pm • 8 Replies • 546 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Is BDSM an induced illusion or a concealed reality?

Help for a newish Dom

What are you doing now to incorporate into a lifestyle. Orgasm control and chastity are pretty easy to incorporate into everyday life.

Sun Aug 23, 2026 10:37 pm • 2 Replies • 284 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Help for a newish Dom

I’m new to the Cage, but not to the scene

Welcome:)

Thu Aug 13, 2026 4:58 am • 2 Replies • 215 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Introductions

Topic

I’m new to the Cage, but not to the scene

First time buying toys: need advice on safe materials

This really all depends on WHAT the particular toy is for.

Wed Aug 12, 2026 6:05 am • 5 Replies • 944 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Equipment & Toys

Topic

First time buying toys: need advice on safe materials

Cbt

I've never really been into it, for a couple reasons: one being that I'm not really a super huge pain slut, and two, because I worry about long term or permanent damage.
Though mild cock slapping/sp ...

Wed Aug 12, 2026 6:01 am • 6 Replies • 1860 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Cbt

Your Lack of Limits Does Not "Cast a Wider Net"

Well said! No notes.

Thu Jul 30, 2026 6:49 am • 5 Replies • 727 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Your Lack of Limits Does Not "Cast a Wider Net"

Gen Z Femsub thoughts

I think the sharp rejection comes from a couple things.
1. The fact that there is a faction of people that wants it to be mandatory for everyone.
2. There are a lot of men who are simply incompet ...

Sat May 02, 2026 4:56 pm • 3 Replies • 584 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

Gen Z Femsub thoughts

GenZ Malesub Thoughts Wanted! :D

I think when it comes right down to it, the reality is that most “traditional relationships” have a more shared power dynamic. Not so much for any genetically inherent reason, but for practical ones ...

Fri May 01, 2026 11:57 pm • 10 Replies • 1547 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Femdom

Topic

GenZ Malesub Thoughts Wanted! :D