Enamored Dominant or Just a Lunatic?

A month!!!???!??!?

I’ve known my Master 17 years and we are taking our time (together for 20 months). You shouldn’t even be discussing moving in, you haven’t met.

Please take what is being said ...

Fri Oct 18, 2019 6:19 am • 95 Replies • 36931 Views

Enamored Dominant or Just a Lunatic?

Run... far away and fast!

I would not even meet him. His expectations on such a new submissive and relationship are unrealistic.

Please do not meet him. If you insist.... meet in public, with a ...

Fri Oct 18, 2019 5:29 am • 95 Replies • 36931 Views

It’s annoying

I’m going to point out that you posted this in a forum, which opens things up for discussion. You’ve been given constructive criticism and advice from kind strangers. Yet you keep given push back inst ...

Fri Oct 11, 2019 4:14 pm • 19 Replies • 8909 Views

Easing the ouchies

Look up Traumeel on Amazon. There is a gel that is amazing. Works great on bruises. Anytime someone gets bitten at work we cover it in Traumeel gel and it rarely bruises and hurts a lot less (I work w ...

Mon Sep 09, 2019 3:52 am • 6 Replies • 2923 Views

Your favorite thing

Mine is a perfect gentleman in public. It makes my knees weak. If we aren’t holding hands when we reach a curb to step off or on he offers me his hand. Opens car doors for me. Always seems to reach a ...

Mon Sep 02, 2019 5:23 am • 6 Replies • 3895 Views

Proper Online Etiquette

I did it 17-20 years ago. We all did back then it seemed. I haven’t done it for years. I don’t have any protocols as far as how I write in an online forum. I usually capitalize Dominant unless I’m bei ...

Wed Aug 28, 2019 3:29 am • 18 Replies • 8465 Views

Advice on adding a new girl to the household

A "million" years ago i was that girl being added to a household. I spent months getting to know them and frankly I was pretty head over heels with both of them. We'd talk to each other hours and ho ...

Thu Aug 22, 2019 2:21 pm • 10 Replies • 8192 Views

Respect...pfft

People suck.... the old adage of kissing many frogs until you find your prince basically applies. Try not to get emotionally invested. Don’t give up too much too soon.

Sun Aug 18, 2019 2:53 am • 4 Replies • 3012 Views

So what if...?

Communication should be the foundation of a BDSM (or any) relationship... you must talk and share. If you see your current bedroom only relationship heading towards marriage, it’s best if you share as ...

Sat Aug 17, 2019 3:19 pm • 7 Replies • 3939 Views

What's in a name

(i copied this from a precious forum post i made, lots of replies about names if you want to read them....
https://thecage.co/phpBB/viewtopic.php?p=6509&highlight=#6509 )

“A djinn is a desert ...

Sun Jul 28, 2019 3:52 pm • 7 Replies • 3925 Views