Your favorite thing

Mine is a perfect gentleman in public. It makes my knees weak. If we aren’t holding hands when we reach a curb to step off or on he offers me his hand. Opens car doors for me. Always seems to reach a ...

Mon Sep 02, 2019 5:23 am • 6 Replies • 3585 Views

Proper Online Etiquette

I did it 17-20 years ago. We all did back then it seemed. I haven’t done it for years. I don’t have any protocols as far as how I write in an online forum. I usually capitalize Dominant unless I’m bei ...

Wed Aug 28, 2019 3:29 am • 18 Replies • 7873 Views

Advice on adding a new girl to the household

A "million" years ago i was that girl being added to a household. I spent months getting to know them and frankly I was pretty head over heels with both of them. We'd talk to each other hours and ho ...

Thu Aug 22, 2019 2:21 pm • 10 Replies • 7497 Views

Respect...pfft

People suck.... the old adage of kissing many frogs until you find your prince basically applies. Try not to get emotionally invested. Don’t give up too much too soon.

Sun Aug 18, 2019 2:53 am • 4 Replies • 2783 Views

So what if...?

Communication should be the foundation of a BDSM (or any) relationship... you must talk and share. If you see your current bedroom only relationship heading towards marriage, it’s best if you share as ...

Sat Aug 17, 2019 3:19 pm • 7 Replies • 3648 Views

What's in a name

(i copied this from a precious forum post i made, lots of replies about names if you want to read them....
https://thecage.co/phpBB/viewtopic.php?p=6509&highlight=#6509 )

“A djinn is a desert ...

Sun Jul 28, 2019 3:52 pm • 7 Replies • 3623 Views

Better doing daily duties

The issue isn't that you're not checking your stuff.

The issue is that the end product is your Master feels completely unheard and unimportant.

Your Master makes it a point to communicate nee ...

Tue Jul 23, 2019 1:32 pm • 10 Replies • 6335 Views

Remote vibes

One of my customers manages a chain of adult toy stores and she recommends the Lovesense. I’ll replace my Vibease wuth that.

Wed Jul 17, 2019 6:09 am • 17 Replies • 9298 Views

Looking for Sub Friends

Always up for new friends! You are premium, you should definitely come hang out in the chat rooms in the evenings.... we have lots of fun!

Mon Jul 15, 2019 6:28 pm • 39 Replies • 11607 Views

Movies

There is a movie an old Dom friend introduced me to. It is not overtly kinky but the undertones of control and Dominance drew me in and it’s now a favorite of mine. It’s from 1975 ‘ stars Sean Connery ...

Sat Jul 13, 2019 6:02 pm • 7 Replies • 3017 Views