The narcissist

Shaming someone does not empower them!
In my experiences, some people will flat out deny the pain or suffering of another human being because it makes them uncomfortable to see someone be as vulnera ...

Sat Aug 09, 2025 1:38 am • 14 Replies • 6088 Views

The narcissist

You are entitled to your opinions, but you are not entitled to your own facts. Why is it with hyper-vigilance people think it has to be either/or...how about trying both/and?

How is trying both goi ...

Fri Aug 08, 2025 10:17 pm • 14 Replies • 6088 Views

The narcissist

You are entitled to your opinions, but you are not entitled to your own facts. Why is it with hyper-vigilance people think it has to be either/or...how about trying both/and?

Fri Aug 08, 2025 9:14 pm • 14 Replies • 6088 Views

The narcissist

I totally disagree with xx V xx, with all due respect. Dealing with a narcissist is difficult at best if your in a relationship, or can run into them face-to-face. Narcissists are masters at gaslighti ...

Fri Aug 08, 2025 8:59 pm • 14 Replies • 6088 Views

Informal Dynamic Relationship

I have a question to add since were talking about dynamics and relationships.
How do you know when your really talking to a Master? Who wants a slave dynamic. I am told that a slave is meant for ow ...

Fri Aug 08, 2025 2:15 pm • 10 Replies • 4090 Views

Informal Dynamic Relationship

While I absolutely agree that kneeling before your Dominant can be a very meaningful gesture, something deep and powerful, I have to pause at him only being a “potential Dom.” Do you offer submissive ...

Wed Aug 06, 2025 1:46 pm • 10 Replies • 4090 Views

True Slave Training Is .....

Personally, I think any sort of D/s needs to have input from both parties. I like to focus more on the non-sexual aspects, like protocols, rituals, and rules…but only if all parties can agree on what ...

Mon Nov 25, 2024 9:56 pm • 28 Replies • 4903 Views

Assertiveness issues

I was also raised to respect others and to “be kind” (whatever that meant). Deep within me, though, lurked a very dark animal with intense desires. It took me a very long time to be able to embrace th ...

Thu Nov 14, 2024 11:24 pm • 9 Replies • 1832 Views

What is “the norm”?

I think at times, our fantasies and masturbation sessions are avenues that we use to accept our deeper selves. What if a person likes to degrade and humiliate his partner, enjoys intense rough sex, an ...

Wed Nov 13, 2024 4:55 pm • 30 Replies • 5331 Views

Question For Hairy Men

I am a bald headed guy with a goatee. I decided to start shaving my head years ago when my hairline went into retreat and I started developing a reverse mohawk. I am naturally hairy, and I absolutely ...

Tue Feb 20, 2024 4:42 pm • 19 Replies • 3657 Views