New Sub

@Kara

I have been forwarding your list to new folks--
It doesn't get any better then this!!!!!

Sun Oct 28, 2018 6:10 pm • 10 Replies • 5732 Views

Very new. Need some info

So---
There was an amazing post here on the cage that could help you:


https://thecage.co/phpBB/viewtopic.php?t=1005

Sun Oct 28, 2018 6:09 pm • 16 Replies • 8089 Views

Bum play & impotence

Cock rings are very individual.

I would start with the least expensive and see what works for you.


I was suggesting vibration not electricity:)


Have you tried a vibrator to you cock?

Sun Oct 28, 2018 6:05 pm • 10 Replies • 8265 Views

Bum play & impotence

Have you tried cock rings?
Vibration?

What have you tried ?

Sun Oct 28, 2018 5:31 am • 10 Replies • 8265 Views

Dommes gotta domme.

When I was first starting I found that a lot of the books didn't really apply to me. So many of them seem to be from a completely different socioeconomic space with completely different goals than I h ...

Sun Oct 28, 2018 5:29 am • 2 Replies • 3908 Views

Wondering if I am being scammed

The answer is yes.

Sun Oct 28, 2018 5:19 am • 36 Replies • 17683 Views

Sexual experience needed?

There are no guidelines on sexual experience when coming into BDSM. There are actually many people who are happy and healthy in their BDSM relationships and have no sex at all with their partners. BDS ...

Sun Oct 28, 2018 5:18 am • 10 Replies • 5030 Views

Very new. Need some info

Being new is a great place to be.
There are lots of great books on rope play and YouTube videos .

But your better bet is to look for local events in your area.

Meet others and seek counsel.
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Sun Oct 28, 2018 5:04 am • 16 Replies • 8089 Views

Laundry list of questions

Love the questions.


1- For me the red flag isn't in the profile, it's in the responses. Are they rude, hostile, do they bait people? People have all kinds of reasons for handling their profiles t ...

Sat Oct 27, 2018 8:42 pm • 7 Replies • 3837 Views

Open D/S Relationships

There are many aspects to real time nonmonogmy.

Emotional- physical- psychological

My love has always said that although love is a never ending resource- time, effort, energy are finite.

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Sat Oct 27, 2018 2:19 am • 4 Replies • 2839 Views