Submissive Needy VS The Takers

Emotionally unable to take care of themselves on their own. Needing others to create value. Emotionally insecure to the point of abusive and manipulative Behavior

Wed Nov 27, 2019 5:37 am • 8 Replies • 4300 Views

How should a submissive communicate? D/s relationship experiences.

@middle


That is an unfortunate thought for many dominants that to be dominant over somebody they have to diminish them. I am exactly the opposite. I want her to be strong, capable, self-assured, ...

Mon Nov 25, 2019 8:16 pm • 7 Replies • 5524 Views

What Submissives Want: Ladies, What is something that a Dom/Daddy/Master will do that you find abso

Im going to start with.
You may want to consider removing gender here.
Masters are women to.
Slaves are men to.
And non binary, pan, and alt identities are everywhere.


Being you are aski ...

Mon Nov 25, 2019 6:44 pm • 8 Replies • 4035 Views

Best references for a beginner

Seek out your local community.
Put your own profile up here.
Youtube has great tutorials.

Mon Nov 25, 2019 6:40 pm • 4 Replies • 3454 Views

Hot take: Dommes are allowed to be insecure sometimes.

Sometimes??

Shit..

All the time.

Control issues are born out of insecurity.

Mon Nov 25, 2019 6:39 pm • 28 Replies • 10878 Views

How should a submissive communicate? D/s relationship experiences.

First off- awesome topic!!!


"For Dommes/ Doms:
What sorts of things did you find your sub didn't communicate well to you before your first encounter?"


My beloved struggled with having lim ...

Mon Nov 25, 2019 6:37 pm • 7 Replies • 5524 Views

Brats - automatically a little?

No.

Can be mistaken for - bit not automatically.


The age play component is what seperates them.

Brats can be adult brats.

Littles can use brattiness within their little space or out ...

Mon Nov 25, 2019 6:23 pm • 11 Replies • 5819 Views

Disobedient or not working

You can NOT MAKE someone obedient.

There is no punishment that will create service. If the s type refuses to talk and refuses to serve-- there is nothing you can do.

They have to choose to do ...

Sat Nov 23, 2019 10:11 am • 7 Replies • 4376 Views

Reconciling a lose of love not understood

So, i read this twice trying to understand what you are saying.


When I view someone needing help - I ask them. If they say no- it probably has nothing to do with me- instead it has to do with ho ...

Fri Nov 22, 2019 5:49 pm • 3 Replies • 2636 Views

Past Abuse/Present BDSM relationship

@ropebunny


Yes. Could be higher for both- or rather all genders.

But this is what we know.

Fri Nov 22, 2019 8:01 am • 11 Replies • 6562 Views