Blocking

Because the world is an unpredictable place.

Sat Nov 16, 2019 8:47 pm • 75 Replies • 25602 Views

Blocking

Because people have a whole life that has nothing to do with you.

Sat Nov 16, 2019 8:22 pm • 75 Replies • 25602 Views

Prep for play

Thats a great question.

We dont really prep- come to think of it.

As far as must haves.

Thats a great question. After my head injury I have had to change my play extensively.

So, it d ...

Sat Nov 16, 2019 8:20 pm • 8 Replies • 6518 Views

How did you?

I would like to add that I dont care how people come into BDSM. 50 shades, porn, a friend, a partner-

These are all valid.

We ALL had a starting place where we didnt know squat.

Sat Nov 16, 2019 7:57 pm • 6 Replies • 2994 Views

How did you?

My beloved was in a D/s relationship with her partner before me. When we first got together I was not vanilla per se, but I was unaware of BDSM.


We both wanted to take our time. So we both spe ...

Sat Nov 16, 2019 7:54 pm • 6 Replies • 2994 Views

Sub Drop - causes and feelings

Emotional drops outside of play are a normal part of the range of human emotion. Subdrop does not create something new. Instead it takes the chemical equations you already have in your brain and ampli ...

Sat Nov 16, 2019 7:45 pm • 6 Replies • 3499 Views

Violet Wands, anyone into them? What's the best kind?

We have this gentleman in our community called the Count. He is an electric genius. Anytime we have a play party and he's at our place, we just tell " him you pick where you want to set up and it's y ...

Sat Nov 16, 2019 7:41 pm • 23 Replies • 12915 Views

When a Dom or sub dies

Oh. Im so deeply sorry for your loss.

Thank you for posting this.

Thu Nov 14, 2019 7:28 pm • 31 Replies • 13362 Views

Ball busting and other erotica

I love it !!


Just picked up a new toy:
You gotta see this !!!!!



https://www.etsy.com/listing/737550381/cbt-bondage-board?ref=shop_home_active_6&sca=1



I love this thing !!!

Thu Nov 14, 2019 8:05 am • 10 Replies • 8660 Views

The best stores for proper attire?

Etsy makes beautiful stuff .

Steam punk is original:


https://www.hiipps.com/products/straps-halter-studs-steampunk-leather-brocade-underbust-corset?variant=28991236161&currency=USD&ut ...

Thu Nov 14, 2019 7:31 am • 7 Replies • 5620 Views