Advice?

Hello and welcome!!

"I want to be sexy for him? And I want to get more toys but he said no and won't tell me why. He really enjoys using the toys we have on me. Would it be wrong if I got more toys ...

Wed Oct 16, 2019 9:13 pm • 13 Replies • 7560 Views

Advice for a switch new to BDSM

Hello and welcome !

Many times when we are new we get stuck on the concept of having an identity right away. Your particular BDSM /sexual identity might be a very complex and very fluid. With some ...

Tue Oct 15, 2019 10:44 pm • 5 Replies • 3834 Views

Advice for a switch new to BDSM

Hello and welcome !

Many times when we are new we get stuck on the concept of having an identity right away. Your particular BDSM /sexual identity might be a very complex and very fluid. With some ...

Tue Oct 15, 2019 8:02 pm • 5 Replies • 3834 Views

Why do we have profiles?

I read profiles when I've been contacted by someone.


But I take them with a grain of salt.
Are they who a person is, who they want to be, who they think they should be?

I perfer to talk to ...

Tue Oct 15, 2019 7:59 pm • 20 Replies • 10079 Views

Slavery total ownership ...

Hello and welcome.

BDSM is a great journey.

Having a desired relationship is also a great place to start.


Have you looked at a BDSM checklist?

Put out an ad?

Engaged in your local ...

Mon Oct 14, 2019 10:05 pm • 10 Replies • 6689 Views

Online gangbang?

Ok.
This is a great topic.

I hate to be an ashole here, but here goes.

my first question is- are you experienced in bdsm?

Are you emotionally prepared for triggers or fall out?

Wanti ...

Mon Oct 14, 2019 3:36 am • 9 Replies • 5127 Views

Is punishment necessary in BDSM?

No.
Punishment is mot necessary.

Remember-- the base of BDSM is negotiating.

If punishments arent your thing --- FOR WHATEVER REASON----


Then its a limit and like all limits it need ...

Mon Oct 14, 2019 3:32 am • 8 Replies • 4527 Views

Timely manners

People, shockingly, have a whole life outside if answering emails.

I think, when you put something out there its great to get a quick response.

But, if not, then not.

There is no time fram ...

Sun Oct 13, 2019 6:47 pm • 9 Replies • 2387 Views

An interesting thought about the male mind

@lock

Size does matter. To a lot of people.

We are however, encouraged to say that is doesnt, or say that "what they do with it matters".

So, I hate to break it to you but size matters.
...

Sat Oct 12, 2019 1:55 am • 31 Replies • 13567 Views

Solo little time ideas

I dont play video games.

Movies- Spotlight, Dolores Claiborne, Sleepers, hunger games,

Shows- Bobs Burgers, mind hunters, criminal minds, Brooklyn 99, vera, orange is the new black,

Fri Oct 11, 2019 8:29 pm • 4 Replies • 3276 Views