The Terms "Dominant" and "Submissive" seem to be relative, but not absolute, ter

Your a switch.
Probably a service top.


The issue isn't with the definitions. The issue is that you need to broaden the words that you use to define yourself

Sat Jul 06, 2019 8:32 pm • 6 Replies • 4275 Views

D/s Relationship

Hello!
He is already telling you that he has no intention of respecting whatever limits you may have.

That you need to change your way of doing things to suit him.


For me this isn't about wh ...

Sat Jul 06, 2019 8:30 pm • 34 Replies • 18767 Views

I have questions

Depends.

If he has a viable answer for the pics will it still leave you with questions?

Then yes.

Cut bait.


If you want to believe what he has to say and drop it.

Then stay.

Sat Jul 06, 2019 8:28 pm • 7 Replies • 4698 Views

Pet peeve or respect aspect

I disagree.

If a persons thing is showing off thier bits then go for it.
For many people with body image issues putting out nudes is a revolutionary act.

It is transformative.


I put ...

Sat Jul 06, 2019 8:26 pm • 18 Replies • 8972 Views

Trust

Not everybody is looking for trust. There are people who thrive on creating and maintaining chaos.

Assuming that everyone wants to trust and that everyone defines trust in the same way causes a lo ...

Sat Jul 06, 2019 8:09 pm • 14 Replies • 7497 Views

Open to all: What's your "hook"?

Smart, driven, easy to laugh, confidence without arrogance, engaging, life experience, community minded...

Sat Jun 22, 2019 4:50 am • 73 Replies • 26581 Views

Disobient sub

There's a lot that's going on here. So let's start with the basics.


1) Your brand new to being a D-type.

2) You have an online relationship with an s type that undermines your authority.

...

Fri Jun 21, 2019 5:54 pm • 23 Replies • 13169 Views

Trivial pursuit, S & M version.

@Bunnie

You nailed it.

It is NOT that the slave isnt allowed to say no, it IS that the M type has final word.


@alawey

With all due respect that is not true. My beloved and i have been ...

Tue Jun 18, 2019 3:18 pm • 26 Replies • 11666 Views

Starting up

Here is a place to start:



http://yourkinkyfriends.com/2018/06/29/livingms/



http://yourkinkyfriends.com/2018/07/08/living-m-s-24-7-part-two-by-master-bear/

Tue Jun 18, 2019 3:12 pm • 1 Replies • 3279 Views

Trauma Bonds

Would you please explain the term:)

Tue Jun 18, 2019 3:08 pm • 2 Replies • 3081 Views