The Worst Mistake a Dominant or Submissive Can Make

I think you nailed it!

Mon Aug 22, 2022 5:21 am • 42 Replies • 12360 Views

How best to reply (sub female)

You are not in any negotiated agreement. Until that happens no honorifics.

Mon Aug 22, 2022 5:13 am • 33 Replies • 8022 Views

When is a Dom not allowed to discipline or correct a submissive?

Thank you Bunnie!! Good to see you!!

Mon Aug 22, 2022 12:00 am • 62 Replies • 12548 Views

Advice

You cant know what you expect to gain.
Its like telling someone who never had chocolate to describe the taste.

Meet people- talk- think about who you are - but knowing is a different matter all t ...

Sun Aug 21, 2022 9:25 pm • 28 Replies • 5271 Views

Starting a conversation

Furthermore- to clarify.

All questions are good. Name - hobby whatever.

The INTENT of the game is to equally have a conversation and to remove the pressure of creating and maintaining the conve ...

Sun Aug 21, 2022 8:15 pm • 20 Replies • 4569 Views

Starting a conversation

Mundane questions: how are you , how is your day.

The intent of the game is to get to know a person deeply and continue the conversation equally.

All questions are fine- but the goal for the q ...

Sun Aug 21, 2022 8:10 pm • 20 Replies • 4569 Views

Is this a legitimate escape ?

No absolutely not. You abused and manipulated a sacred trust. You called red when there was no red. She would be wise to not play with you again.

Sun Aug 21, 2022 7:50 pm • 26 Replies • 5500 Views

Old vs new guard

This is easy.


Old guard BDSM folks are dead.

The concept is you start as an s type and "earn" ypur way to being a D type.


This is often mystified but often problematic.

Sun Aug 21, 2022 7:46 pm • 82 Replies • 16706 Views

punishments to deal with playful Sub

Why are you punishing?

Sun Aug 21, 2022 7:44 pm • 32 Replies • 19403 Views

Starting a conversation

Play the question game.

Rules:
No mundane questions
No mirror questions

You ask a question- they answer it then ask you a question. You answer it then ask...

Sun Aug 21, 2022 7:43 pm • 20 Replies • 4569 Views