Cultivating a New D/s Relationship | Grooming

@ ResilentPearl


Which ever you perfer:)

Wed Nov 14, 2018 10:20 pm • 15 Replies • 13664 Views

BDSM: Best Advice You've Received?

Our community is struggling with consent, rape, hate, and drugs.

It is frustrating that the venues continue to exist.


So lately the peice that I hold into is
"Dont underestimate the power ...

Wed Nov 14, 2018 8:17 pm • 34 Replies • 17990 Views

Cultivating a New D/s Relationship | Grooming

I accidentally put this in another post where I read the question wrong. Lol...


In our beginning I was going to nursing school full time and working multiple jobs.

The books at the time didn't ...

Wed Nov 14, 2018 6:23 pm • 15 Replies • 13664 Views

Experience

I agree with everyone here.

It's the connection that matters.

Your honesty up front creates opportunities for growth for the both of you.

Also-- connect to your local community .

Wed Nov 14, 2018 5:52 pm • 9 Replies • 4657 Views

I genuinely think I'm losing my mind.

I've been watching this thread with interest.


Have you considered starting a blog and sharing your process?

Or a private journal to steady yourself?

You seem to be working very hard at a th ...

Wed Nov 14, 2018 7:44 am • 16 Replies • 10878 Views

Experience

I disagree that a subs want experienced Dom/mes.

I find that a lot folks coming into BDSM are currently partnered, middle age, and heavily influenced by media.

I think my point is many subs are ...

Wed Nov 14, 2018 7:39 am • 9 Replies • 4657 Views

Protocol

@Henna

I have a masochistic side.

But--- I think sometimes we get our chosen roles confused with how we treat people.


So how I come across is not a direct reflection of what I am capable o ...

Tue Nov 13, 2018 11:17 pm • 26 Replies • 20179 Views

Protocol

@Henna,

I completely agree.

It's not about surrounding yourself with "yes folks".

Being able to respectfully disagree makes conversations more candid.


Looking forward to reading your po ...

Tue Nov 13, 2018 9:21 pm • 26 Replies • 20179 Views

Training a sub

Can you please give some more information?

Tue Nov 13, 2018 2:03 pm • 17 Replies • 14820 Views

Protocol

@Henna

Lol!!!!


Lesbians used to call bisexuals "kiki".

It was a deragatory term and indicated that they weren't "serious " lesbians.

OY.

Switches in the BDSM community found themsel ...

Tue Nov 13, 2018 1:59 pm • 26 Replies • 20179 Views