The Partners That Come Before “Him”

I understand where you are coming from... I've always been an "all in" gal-- serious commitment or what's the point?

But I found that it was actually very unhealthy for me and have been trying to g ...

Wed Oct 10, 2018 12:31 am • 21 Replies • 12407 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

I like this thread! What a fun idea.

The imagery of ivy and twine stuck out to me in a song that holds a lot of meaning for me. The line is "you know your desires and mine/ wrap my flesh in ivy and ...

Wed Sep 19, 2018 7:02 pm • 267 Replies • 116788 Views

Re: Since I'm *coughbeingmentionedcough*

I was tired and sore last night and didn't think I had the brain power for a public reply, so sent my thoughts to Ivy in an email.. in the light of day they aren't so sloppy, and since my comments cam ...

Thu Aug 23, 2018 10:14 am • 10 Replies • 10663 Views

2 AM musings about BDSM lifestyle

Thanks for everyone's thoughts so far!

Re: Amy
A delicate balance indeed! We are much more paradoxical as human beings than society would have us believe

Re: Jeep
Excellent advise! We love ...

Wed Aug 22, 2018 6:00 pm • 10 Replies • 10663 Views

2 AM musings about BDSM lifestyle

I'm sure as I interact with more people on the Cage I'll get a reputation for asking questions no one needed to have answered. I'm a bit of study-addict and obsess about things when I find something n ...

Wed Aug 22, 2018 5:56 am • 10 Replies • 10663 Views

Need advice-Was I wrong?

Hey, Aria. Thanks for your two cents-- as someone new and watching this convo unfold, I appreciate your firm perspective.
Ivy

Mon Aug 20, 2018 9:28 am • 46 Replies • 16118 Views

Need advice-Was I wrong?

Thanks for sharing your story! I've encountered situations like this one and over. Sometimes I bend and do things I immediately regret because of that "I *should" be submissive to them" mentality. Hon ...

Sun Aug 19, 2018 6:20 pm • 46 Replies • 16118 Views

Kinky Alphabet.

K is for Kegel exercises... Because you can do them and daydream without detection *shifty eyes*

Wed Aug 15, 2018 8:37 am • 129 Replies • 58824 Views

Am I submissive?

Thank you!

Tue Aug 14, 2018 7:21 pm • 15 Replies • 8843 Views

Am I submissive?

Hello!

I invite everyone to take a look at my profile to understand my perspective a little more, but I also wanted to put a note out for discussion.

I am genuinely interested in discerning whet ...

Tue Aug 14, 2018 5:20 pm • 15 Replies • 8843 Views