Determining informed consent

Lovedove,

My comment was meant more as a thought experiment. Lets take a non-kink example of what I'm driving at.

Imagine for a second I was going to alter your eyes to perceive ultraviolet lig ...

Thu Sep 22, 2022 12:58 pm • 29 Replies • 5836 Views

Rules for fighting

If you want to fight "fair" then one simple solution is to move any argument onto neutral ground, a place not associated with your dynamic or roles in your relationships. Stepping out of the bedroom ...

Sat Aug 27, 2022 1:39 pm • 6 Replies • 1123 Views

Old vs new guard

"The Old Guard dies, it does not surrender." French General Etienne Cambronne. Right before his surrender at the battle of Waterloo.

Irrelevant I know, but I just had to add it.

Thu Jun 23, 2022 3:00 pm • 82 Replies • 14045 Views

What is an overseer?

Maybe a Master who owns multiple slaves? But I'm just guessing contextually, never heard this before.

Wed Jun 22, 2022 12:25 pm • 13 Replies • 2183 Views

Harems

Well SR you could try an ad here, or another kink website. But really you're not looking for a harem. You are looking for a guy you want to spend time with, have fun with, get all sweaty with. Mel ...

Sun Jan 09, 2022 1:05 pm • 8 Replies • 2573 Views

Harems

Well you could get transported to another world and star in an anime. Sorry, just had to make that joke.

Seriously. The same way you would find any other sexual partner. Except you now include t ...

Sat Jan 08, 2022 1:17 pm • 8 Replies • 2573 Views

Harems

Sure its a great idea as long as everyone is aware of what is happening, everyone shares everything they're thinking and feeling to prevent the seeds of discord from growing, they all get along, every ...

Fri Jan 07, 2022 4:19 pm • 8 Replies • 2573 Views

Dilemma

Sometimes the worst thing that can happen is to be paralyzed with indecision. 2 are already unavailable, how long will the other three be an option? He might feel bad losing an opportunity, how is h ...

Tue Dec 14, 2021 4:13 am • 14 Replies • 4856 Views

Determining informed consent

Subtle-You seem to have missed my point entirely. How can someone to consent to something they have no frame of reference for? I used impact play as an example as it is simplest to demonstrate. How ...

Mon Dec 13, 2021 4:36 am • 29 Replies • 5836 Views

Determining informed consent

Here's an interesting wrinkle for you. What about when informed consent is impossible?

For example impact play. I can explain what will happened, precisely what I intend to do, the physics behind ...

Thu Dec 09, 2021 1:44 pm • 29 Replies • 5836 Views