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Posts by Zedland(dom male)

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Is punishment necessary in BDSM?

A punishment is a correction, you're not supposed to enjoy it. I'll admit to finding a certain sadistic joy in carefully formulating something that will make my sub wish they'd never been born (which ...

Sun Oct 13, 2019 10:34 pm • 8 Replies • 5617 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Is punishment necessary in BDSM?

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Timely manners

It could be a power play...

But I sense I should flee from the middle of you two.

Sun Oct 13, 2019 5:27 pm • 9 Replies • 3043 Views

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Zedland

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Timely manners

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Timely manners

Off the top of my head I'd say about a day or two would be the outside limit for a polite reply.

But on the other hand life happens and there is nothing we can do about that. A little line about h ...

Sun Oct 13, 2019 9:46 am • 9 Replies • 3043 Views

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Zedland

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Timely manners

124

It’s annoying

The subs here are fine for the most part. In a relationship where the optimal outcome involves them hogtied on a bed as you stand over them with a whip they are righ to be picky.

There is already ...

Sat Oct 12, 2019 6:09 pm • 19 Replies • 11607 Views

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Zedland

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It’s annoying

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An interesting thought about the male mind

I can't disagree with Bear either. With very few exceptions I think you should be able to have whatever you want as your profile pic. If someone is proud of their johnson and wants everyone to see i ...

Sat Oct 12, 2019 9:47 am • 31 Replies • 17500 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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An interesting thought about the male mind

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An interesting thought about the male mind

Establishing dominance takes confidences, if your dick doubles as a paddle its a lot easier to be confident. Sometimes its that simple.

Also why I would never suggest this myself I've heard that c ...

Fri Oct 11, 2019 5:18 am • 31 Replies • 17500 Views

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Zedland

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An interesting thought about the male mind

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I know why I like itl but why???

You could post a personal here as well, but mileage varies. So the munches are probably a better bet.

Wed Oct 09, 2019 3:20 am • 5 Replies • 6267 Views

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Zedland

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Fetish

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I know why I like itl but why???

128

Talk to your organizers

Informing on others is hard for most people to do. Especially as others have pointed out when things exist in a gray area. Usually I encourage a pre-scene speech where the house rules are laid out c ...

Mon Oct 07, 2019 4:53 am • 9 Replies • 4932 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Talk to your organizers

129

Inappropriate safe words

Absolutely! Safe Words Need To Be Out-Of-Context.

I use "Please Stop!" and "I Beg You, Stop! It Hurts!! " "No More" and so forth --- to ENCOURAGE my masters to keep on- harder.

THE saf ...

Sat Oct 05, 2019 10:12 am • 30 Replies • 16944 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Inappropriate safe words

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Inappropriate safe words

No @Auria has a good point.

"And how many more lashes?"
"Nein!"
"Okay, count them for me..."

Fri Oct 04, 2019 4:47 am • 30 Replies • 16944 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Inappropriate safe words