Physical Attraction~

I can say with absolute certainty that you're being picky. I can also say with complete certainty that it is not a bad thing. You are allowed to be as picky as you want. In fact you should be.

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Sun Sep 29, 2019 5:42 am • 43 Replies • 16825 Views

Blumpkin?

@MasterBear, then you have the honors of naming it.

Sun Sep 29, 2019 3:48 am • 11 Replies • 7702 Views

Is it ok to ask?

@wynd

A Dom's rules are no more important than a sub's limits. In fact the former significantly less so because as you mention they are negotiated and agreed upon before they have force, where as ...

Sat Sep 28, 2019 4:33 pm • 31 Replies • 17205 Views

Inappropriate safe words

"Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious" and obviously if they can't get the whole thing out they're clearly not in distress.

Sat Sep 28, 2019 4:19 pm • 30 Replies • 12220 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

@allnewtoall, @Miki, Mailbox? I'm surprised the website didn't crash...

Sat Sep 28, 2019 4:45 am • 3056 Replies • 890239 Views

Is it ok to ask?

@wynd,

While I can respect your position as to yourself, I would never use a HARD limit as a punishment or tolerate someone else doing so in my presence or knowledge. For two very good reasons. T ...

Sat Sep 28, 2019 4:43 am • 31 Replies • 17205 Views

Mental illness within the BDSM community

Personally I'd say that the BDSM community attracts more than its fair share of those with problems. But that seems to be the norm for any group labeled deviant by society; whether they be revolution ...

Fri Sep 27, 2019 11:36 pm • 20 Replies • 8936 Views

Wgen did you first know you were into something different?

I was a teenager with questions who thankfully knew a woman with answers. Before her I was just a guy who like rough sex and was very good at taking control, afterwards I learned there were several i ...

Sun Sep 22, 2019 8:04 am • 25 Replies • 14185 Views

Real Time and Online : What's your prefence and why?

While I understand the arguments for both IRL and online, both their drawbacks and benefits, because of my job most of my relationships have been a combination. As to what I prefer? Most definitely ...

Sun Sep 22, 2019 7:56 am • 70 Replies • 32776 Views

Sacrifice, Selflessness and Martyrdom

As someone else pointed out sacrifice and selflessness are general traits of any healthy relationship, kinky or not. It is in fact merely part of being and adult. Because, to paraphrase a great phil ...

Fri Sep 20, 2019 6:41 am • 10 Replies • 5693 Views