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Is there such a role as a "toy"?

Yeah nothing about this sounds healthy. And I would consider by indulging him you are not helping fix him, you are just enabling his unhealthy desires. And indulging those rarely ends well for anyon ...

Tue Aug 11, 2020 9:36 pm • 66 Replies • 28440 Views

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Zedland

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Absolute Beginners

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Is there such a role as a "toy"?

How am I supposed to behave during sex? What do you like in a sub?

It does depend. I like fight and initiative in my subs, but at the same time I am always in control. How subtly I excerise that control depends but I always find a way of letting my sub know what I ...

Tue Aug 11, 2020 3:00 pm • 15 Replies • 7987 Views

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Zedland

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Absolute Beginners

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How am I supposed to behave during sex? What do you like in a sub?

Developing feelings

No it's a fairly common thing. You're amongst like-minded people who all share your interests, are interested in delving deep into your soul, and offer affirmation and affection.

...it would be ni ...

Mon Aug 10, 2020 5:47 am • 26 Replies • 8898 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Developing feelings

I'm a new Dom experienciencing a breakup. Help!!!

It sounds like there are two ghosts standing over you shoulder and it disquiets you, which in turn upsets her. Beyond that your situation sounds complicated enough professional help is probably a goo ...

Tue Aug 04, 2020 3:44 pm • 32 Replies • 16883 Views

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Zedland

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Lifestyle BDSM

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I'm a new Dom experienciencing a breakup. Help!!!

Submissive in principle but not in practice - how to adjust her thinking

Well there are several things I see. Leading with as other have suggested she just might be a brat. Like a strong-willed horse they are fun to ride but you will never stop fighting for control.

S ...

Tue Aug 04, 2020 3:28 pm • 15 Replies • 8191 Views

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Zedland

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Maledom

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Submissive in principle but not in practice - how to adjust her thinking

Intentional cruelty or ignorance?

Generally I think it boils down to one of three things.

1. They are not who they said they were and the jig is up.
2. They have achieved their "objective" and are happily fapping to your photos. ...

Sun Aug 02, 2020 3:36 pm • 16 Replies • 6422 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Intentional cruelty or ignorance?

Discouraged

You have to dig through significant amounts of dirt to find a diamond. Yes the search sucks and the odds are against you, still the payoff of finding a good partner(s) is worth it.

Wed Jul 29, 2020 3:47 am • 28 Replies • 11990 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Discouraged

Are we our own worst enemy

As much as you want to you can't punish people for being assholes. You can ignore, block, and let anyone who asks know your opinion of them but trying to wrangle the staff into policing the behaviors ...

Sun Jul 26, 2020 9:57 pm • 3 Replies • 3246 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Are we our own worst enemy

Vanilla or kinky?

Begin with whatever you want to begin with. Just make sure it is what you desire and not what someone has pressured you into.

Though you should keep in mind kinky is generally a steeper cliff to j ...

Mon Jul 20, 2020 9:04 pm • 14 Replies • 6618 Views

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Zedland

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Vanilla or kinky?

Online paranoia

Even a paranoid has enemies. It is easier online for people to affect a cover personality but it is also something that occures in real life. People will smile and lie to get want they want of you a ...

Sun Jul 19, 2020 11:38 pm • 8 Replies • 3178 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Online paranoia