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I don't know why some people are making a big deal out of this, but I get what you're saying lol. You're approaching it from an angle of respect/recognition. People who have been here for a long time, ...

Mon Jun 02, 2025 4:29 am • 30 Replies • 10780 Views

Legacy Accounts

I don't know why some people are making a big deal out of this, but I get what you're saying lol. You're approaching it from an angle of respect/recognition. People who have been here for a long time, ...

Sun Jun 01, 2025 8:48 pm • 30 Replies • 10780 Views

How to be a better dom in and outta bedroom

Educate and develop yourself. There's a lot of education that has to be done. A lot of self-development that I don't think is talked about enough. A lot of us want to be leaders but don't have the nec ...

Sun May 25, 2025 10:38 pm • 7 Replies • 4333 Views

Submission: is it someone's choice or their nature?

Both. Let me give you a different example because we can play the definition game all day but at it's core this is an opinionated topic.

Imagine having a talent or a knack for something. Just beca ...

Sat Apr 05, 2025 12:52 am • 21 Replies • 9588 Views

Can you grow to love someone?

The answer to your question is in the research you've already done. You said some people say it's immediate, some people have no preference, some people say can happen over time. Exactly. There is no ...

Tue Jan 28, 2025 7:04 pm • 3 Replies • 791 Views

Therapy

Yes. That's the quote

Sun Jan 19, 2025 8:35 pm • 5 Replies • 1037 Views

Physical attraction

Yes lol I'm aware that there are tons of categories and different types of people who can only find someone attractive if there's an emotional connection and all of these things and that's fine, howev ...

Tue Jan 14, 2025 5:32 am • 24 Replies • 4191 Views

Invalidating others kinkiness - has anyone else experienced this?

I think it's a very uphill and disappointing battle to attempt to navigate kink (or anything for that matter) through the lens of "shouldn't we all" Because the "community" is made up of individual pe ...

Sun Aug 04, 2024 10:50 pm • 14 Replies • 3045 Views

meaningless tasks

Anything can have meaning. It depends on the person assigning and the person fulfilling. If you're reasoning for having her count all the coins in a jar is to keep her busy then yes it's nothing more ...

Sat Aug 03, 2024 2:18 am • 38 Replies • 5464 Views

Subs with mental illness

Everyone has mental illness. It’s part of life. Some of it transient and other mental illness is permanent. It isn’t specific to gender or title. I know several cis male D types on this site with ment ...

Mon Jun 17, 2024 8:28 am • 31 Replies • 5277 Views