Training a sub

When you want to "turn" someone /else/ into anything, you have the wrong idea. The only one you /can/ change is yourself and attempting to do anything other than that is selfish, disrespectful and is ...

Tue Nov 13, 2018 9:37 am • 17 Replies • 11453 Views

Does anyone on here use BDSM as a way of processing sexual assault?

I don't know why i thought sharing honestly here was a good idea. I just immediately get told "you shouldn't do that, get professional help" which by the way, you have no idea, i already have. Then i ...

Sat Nov 10, 2018 10:58 am • 25 Replies • 10664 Views

Does anyone on here use BDSM as a way of processing sexual assault?

What an awesome and heavy question. The answer for me is yes, absolutely. Her article takes a pretty liberal pointed view, and seems to be a little women only focused, but the real message behind it ...

Fri Nov 09, 2018 4:20 pm • 25 Replies • 10664 Views

What just happened?! Found pet i want keep ..im hella new!

Ok, so it looks like you are getting a lot of feedback about sex... but from what i understand from your first post is that this is a lifestyle question right? I can help you on both fronts. I will tr ...

Fri Nov 09, 2018 10:05 am • 8 Replies • 5386 Views

Experiencing dysphoria (ftm)

I would say just be honest. Any Dom/Domme that is interested in a real long-term relationship should/will care about you enough to respect your wishes in this. Furthermore, if it is a real problem for ...

Mon Nov 05, 2018 12:48 pm • 12 Replies • 10645 Views

Very new. Need some info

Hello Sir,
It looks like you have gotten some good help already

There is one thing i think is important to clarify. BDSM lifestyle is separate and different from BDSM sex. They can happen in th ...

Thu Nov 01, 2018 3:59 pm • 16 Replies • 7629 Views

Wired differently?

Sir,
While i agree that maybe all the broadcasting was unnecessary, i don't feel like people's religious beliefs should be kept "off this site". It's a part of him as much as BDSM is a part of h ...

Thu Nov 01, 2018 2:02 pm • 25 Replies • 10760 Views

Anyone else have an 'everything' fetish?

I wouldn't go as far as to say i like /everything/, but i would say that i don't really limit myself basically, as long as it causes no personal damage (physical or emotional), it's not gross imo ( ...

Thu Nov 01, 2018 11:35 am • 21 Replies • 12180 Views

Wired differently?

Have you read the book "Leading and supportive love."? I think it addresses this quite well.

The answer is yes, we are wired differently, however, perception (which is your issue) is simply based o ...

Wed Oct 31, 2018 10:36 am • 25 Replies • 10760 Views

Poly house holds

I know what you mean, i wish so much for this kind of dynamic. It sounds so fulfilling. Of course, when done right.

Wed Oct 31, 2018 10:27 am • 10 Replies • 6958 Views