What does high protocol mean to you?

I personally hate titles, used toward me, and it's one way to guarantee I will be short with you and tell you off. If you're not my love, imo, you have no right to use such things toward me. I don't o ...

Sat Mar 02, 2019 8:16 pm • 13 Replies • 12579 Views

Collared

I think it's up to the individual(s).

I like having my love's name attached to my profile, because I like people knowing he is mine. Just as I like him having my name attached so they know he is a ...

Sat Mar 02, 2019 8:12 pm • 4 Replies • 3545 Views

Spanked to tears

I wouldn't say I enjoy going that far with my love. Perhaps depending on the type of crying? Like, if it's just tears, I might be able to handle that. But if he starts making sounds of too much pain/d ...

Tue Feb 26, 2019 10:16 pm • 16 Replies • 11301 Views

A question for the Doms

I feel like it definitely can, I've never had it go as long as you're saying his has, but definitely I've had a day(sometimes days, depending) here and there where I've had enough, I need to not think ...

Tue Feb 26, 2019 11:42 am • 37 Replies • 15109 Views

A question for the Doms

The connection was lost! Sorry but move on

Dont just "move on", not without trying to communicate and find out what is going on. Connections falter over time sometimes. It happens. A lot more often ...

Tue Feb 26, 2019 8:25 am • 37 Replies • 15109 Views

D/S relationship in public places

For me, I'm in agreement that kink should be kept to a minimum (for example I'm guilty of smacking my love's ass once here and there whole we're out, albeit discreetly and usually quickly so as to not ...

Thu Feb 21, 2019 12:04 pm • 37 Replies • 18189 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

I'm very much obsessed with foxes and Kitsunes. My common username online is TheVoidKitsune(Or some variant with _ in there), but I didn't want to use my normal username here, in an attempt to keep th ...

Tue Feb 19, 2019 8:19 pm • 267 Replies • 96138 Views

Getting a Collar (Necklace?)

Also to add to books to read, I suggest, "Leading and Supportive Love" by Chris M. Lyon. It's what helped my husband realize/understand his submissiveness, and I my Domme ways. It explains both sides ...

Wed Feb 13, 2019 4:26 pm • 14 Replies • 8783 Views

Sharing Your Sub

As of right now, I personally could not share him... for anything. Sex, service, none of it. I dont trust other people, and I dont want anything to happen to him, or to me, or to our relationship. Whi ...

Wed Feb 13, 2019 8:21 am • 27 Replies • 36696 Views

Monogamous, open, and polyamorous

For me...

Monogamous = Only one partner. You and your partner are the only ones you see. No one else.
Open = You and your partner are the only ones actually together, but you two can see others ...

Tue Feb 12, 2019 5:13 pm • 21 Replies • 9637 Views