Why

The assumption in BDSM, mostly due to stereotypes in porn and pop culture, is that the male is dominant and the female is submissive. There are plenty of female dominants and male submissives and all ...

Fri Dec 15, 2017 1:59 am • 13 Replies • 11985 Views

Kinky Holiday Gift Ideas!

Are you buying your play partner(s) a festive gift this holiday season (whatever holiday you may celebrate). If so, care to share? Also, what's on your kinky wish list? Links welcome in this thread ...

Thu Dec 14, 2017 8:26 pm • 12 Replies • 14460 Views

A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM THE FOUNDERS OF THE CAGE

Yes, for those who have asked, existing members up til the 12,000 mark have free membership for life. We've asked inactive members to come back and confirm they want their spot. If you've been here ...

Fri Dec 08, 2017 12:41 am • 47 Replies • 48033 Views

A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM THE FOUNDERS OF THE CAGE

Thank you again to everyone for their kind words of support! I am bumping this yet again as we are quickly approaching the end of free, open membership at THE CAGE! Help us spread the word, tell you ...

Thu Nov 30, 2017 4:34 pm • 47 Replies • 48033 Views

Is Findommery appropriate on The Cage?

Money = power and playing with it within the context of a D/s relationship can be intriguing. The key part of my former sentence is "within the context of a D/s relationship". Someone who calls him ...

Mon Nov 27, 2017 8:44 pm • 1 Replies • 3401 Views

Why it so hard to find a true Dominant?

Don't forget..if someone sends you harassing messages, unsolicited nude photos, etc. go to their profile and hit "ignore". Then screenshot and report any behaviour that violates our Community Standar ...

Wed Nov 22, 2017 6:59 pm • 149 Replies • 105309 Views

A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM THE FOUNDERS OF THE CAGE

I'm bumping this up again...we are almost down to 1000 free memberships remaining! We are VERY excited to see how our community will progress once we go full subscription. We are looking forward to p ...

Wed Nov 22, 2017 6:27 pm • 47 Replies • 48033 Views

A Question for My Fellow Submissive Guys

There are plenty of lifestyle female dominants out there. I'm one of them. I think looking online is pretty much essential to finding a F/m match, simply because we're such a specific group of people ...

Wed Nov 22, 2017 5:26 pm • 24 Replies • 24276 Views

Bondage

I agree with Spenny. Find a local group and see if they have a website with an events calendar. Perhaps they have bondage demos or classes that you could attend. I also recommend using our personal ...

Mon Nov 20, 2017 4:08 pm • 9 Replies • 10930 Views

A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM THE FOUNDERS OF THE CAGE

Thanks for the suggestion Truckerlife. We will definitely be tweaking various search options on the site as we go along. Your request will be considered as we go along.

Wed Nov 15, 2017 3:26 pm • 47 Replies • 48033 Views