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Profile visible to members only?

Hey Lexie..it is something we are working on and we should have up for you this month, hopefully more towards the beginning than the end. We appreciate privacy is a big issue for many of our users. I ...

Tue Jan 02, 2018 10:07 pm • 20 Replies • 17768 Views

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Villanelle

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Technical Support

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Profile visible to members only?

1322

Why

The assumption in BDSM, mostly due to stereotypes in porn and pop culture, is that the male is dominant and the female is submissive. There are plenty of female dominants and male submissives and all ...

Fri Dec 15, 2017 1:59 am • 13 Replies • 12642 Views

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Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

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Why

1323

Kinky Holiday Gift Ideas!

Are you buying your play partner(s) a festive gift this holiday season (whatever holiday you may celebrate). If so, care to share? Also, what's on your kinky wish list? Links welcome in this thread ...

Thu Dec 14, 2017 8:26 pm • 12 Replies • 15399 Views

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Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

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Kinky Holiday Gift Ideas!

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A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM THE FOUNDERS OF THE CAGE

Yes, for those who have asked, existing members up til the 12,000 mark have free membership for life. We've asked inactive members to come back and confirm they want their spot. If you've been here ...

Fri Dec 08, 2017 12:41 am • 47 Replies • 51040 Views

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Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

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A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM THE FOUNDERS OF THE CAGE

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A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM THE FOUNDERS OF THE CAGE

Thank you again to everyone for their kind words of support! I am bumping this yet again as we are quickly approaching the end of free, open membership at THE CAGE! Help us spread the word, tell you ...

Thu Nov 30, 2017 4:34 pm • 47 Replies • 51040 Views

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Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

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A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM THE FOUNDERS OF THE CAGE

1326

Is Findommery appropriate on The Cage?

Money = power and playing with it within the context of a D/s relationship can be intriguing. The key part of my former sentence is "within the context of a D/s relationship". Someone who calls him ...

Mon Nov 27, 2017 8:44 pm • 1 Replies • 3586 Views

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Villanelle

Forum

Generally Speaking

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Is Findommery appropriate on The Cage?

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Why it so hard to find a true Dominant?

Don't forget..if someone sends you harassing messages, unsolicited nude photos, etc. go to their profile and hit "ignore". Then screenshot and report any behaviour that violates our Community Standar ...

Wed Nov 22, 2017 6:59 pm • 149 Replies • 110929 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Maledom

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Why it so hard to find a true Dominant?

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A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM THE FOUNDERS OF THE CAGE

I'm bumping this up again...we are almost down to 1000 free memberships remaining! We are VERY excited to see how our community will progress once we go full subscription. We are looking forward to p ...

Wed Nov 22, 2017 6:27 pm • 47 Replies • 51040 Views

Author

Villanelle

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM THE FOUNDERS OF THE CAGE

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A Question for My Fellow Submissive Guys

There are plenty of lifestyle female dominants out there. I'm one of them. I think looking online is pretty much essential to finding a F/m match, simply because we're such a specific group of people ...

Wed Nov 22, 2017 5:26 pm • 24 Replies • 25748 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Femdom

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A Question for My Fellow Submissive Guys

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Bondage

I agree with Spenny. Find a local group and see if they have a website with an events calendar. Perhaps they have bondage demos or classes that you could attend. I also recommend using our personal ...

Mon Nov 20, 2017 4:08 pm • 9 Replies • 11523 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Fetish

Topic

Bondage