attitudes

FYI There is nothing negative regarding being explicit, concise, precise and or clear about what one wants in one's life. Such personal declarations are designed to save everyone's time and energy...w ...

Sat Apr 20, 2019 2:38 am • 16 Replies • 10510 Views

A question for the Doms

Firstly, you are owed an explanation, no matter the length of time of the relationship. I agree, that it is highly likely be has moved on...reprehensible and hurtful without dealing with it to your f ...

Mon Apr 08, 2019 9:59 pm • 37 Replies • 17307 Views

Moody Dom (or sub)

You will find you are smiling more...when you are no longer with him.

Mon Apr 08, 2019 11:09 am • 22 Replies • 11426 Views

I need advice

Freya...putting her foot in it again...long distance...what does that mean exactly? Is it possible to have a meaningful relationship of any kind, if one is hardly in the same room as one's significant ...

Fri Apr 05, 2019 1:12 am • 10 Replies • 7218 Views

He is leaving in 2 years

This topic has sparked loads of reactions..in me...no matter what kind of relationship we are discussing...we have to be clear...really clear ..are we talking about an "arrangement" . ..and has that ...

Sun Jan 27, 2019 3:22 am • 24 Replies • 11672 Views

He is leaving in 2 years

How I wish...I had not been wishy washy in my reply! Must be the sub energy surfacing!

Kara's reply is the one I should have written!

In the States a group of us "psychology nerds" would get tog ...

Sat Jan 26, 2019 11:18 pm • 24 Replies • 11672 Views

He is leaving in 2 years

Darling...not suggesting you are doing anything lightly...however, he has now given you a heads up that he is leaving in 2 years!

You stay with him for the next however long...presumably for 2 ye ...

Sat Jan 26, 2019 6:21 am • 24 Replies • 11672 Views

He is leaving in 2 years

Once again...we are supplied with the word "love"...to be honest, I think it's bandied around far too easily. It's really important to be clear what we are committing to from the get go, and it sound ...

Sat Jan 26, 2019 4:36 am • 24 Replies • 11672 Views

Bedroom Only D/s

I hope people don't mind me waying in, especially as someone who is just beginning or at least trying to understand my dynamic and that of others...these questions that people pose, cause me to really ...

Sat Jan 19, 2019 8:56 pm • 10 Replies • 8910 Views

Messages

Absolutely correct...F

Fri Jan 18, 2019 10:31 pm • 10 Replies • 4064 Views