How to manage while in between

Some random ideas for masochistic self play...
Super hot showers (to the point of extreme discomfort)
Nipple clamps
Wartenberg wheel
Self ties (rope bondage)
Elastic bands around your wrists or ...

Wed Jul 31, 2019 5:31 pm • 9 Replies • 4568 Views

Advice

Good luck! You have a whole bunch of people here, including myself, who will offer support and an ear for venting or advice when needed. Just remember your self worth and that you should be your Dom’s ...

Wed Jul 31, 2019 12:36 am • 34 Replies • 12238 Views

Defining sex

“Sex” to me is a much broader term than it appears that others seem to perceive it. It looks like many are narrowing the scope of what they define as sex while I am broadening it the more I think on i ...

Tue Jul 30, 2019 6:27 pm • 10 Replies • 5765 Views

Advice

I understand your conflict, I really do. My advice is to dig deep and find your inner strength to be brave. Say goodbye and start over. Do the hard thing, the thing that’s scary but that you know is b ...

Tue Jul 30, 2019 6:10 pm • 34 Replies • 12238 Views

Advice

I will try to keep my response as tactful as possible but my feelings in regards to this are strong.

There is a lot of grey area it seems when it comes to BDSM relationships; polyamory, gender flui ...

Tue Jul 30, 2019 5:49 pm • 34 Replies • 12238 Views

Defining sex

I'm confused. What part of the definition talks about orgasms? I feel like I'm missing something. I only see the definition of sex in regards to gender, not the physical act.

Tue Jul 30, 2019 3:09 am • 10 Replies • 5765 Views

Better doing daily duties

I agree with MasterBear. On the day that you didn’t reply until 6pm, did the entire day go by without you thinking of him at all or wanting to talk to him? If you did, I assume you would have checked ...

Tue Jul 23, 2019 6:30 am • 10 Replies • 6748 Views

Things that make me happy

The deep melodic sound of Sir's voice.

Pandas. Unicorns. Pandicorns.

Getting a parking spot in the front of the lot.

Complete rainbow arches.

Ice cream cones on hot summer days.

Good ...

Tue Jul 23, 2019 12:19 am • 2 Replies • 2901 Views

ABCBDSM: Let's Play!

H: Hard Limit
It means “hell no, I absolutely will not do this thing under any circumstance so don’t even ask”.

Fri Jul 19, 2019 2:14 am • 113 Replies • 37487 Views

ABCBDSM: Let's Play!

E: Exhibitionism

Exhibitionism is all about being sexual in public.

It encompasses flashing, public nudity, public sex acts and anything else that’s likely to get you banned from the local par ...

Thu Jul 18, 2019 4:47 am • 113 Replies • 37487 Views