Would you ever tell them?

Over the last several months I’ve begun telling more and more people in my friend/family circle about my D/s relationship. I don’t do so in a dramatic “I have an announcement to make” fashion. I just ...

Tue Oct 29, 2019 12:26 am • 58 Replies • 18632 Views

A Beginner into exhibitionism

You can post photos on fetish sites.

You can give road head with your bare bum in the air for passerbys to see.

Go braless in a thin shirt on a regular day.

Do public scenes at sex clubs.

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Wed Oct 23, 2019 8:40 pm • 15 Replies • 10473 Views

Routines

Something that works for us is rope. Not everyone plays with ropes so it’s not a solution for everyone, but for us it helps me to clear my mind and get into a certain mindset when Sir pulls out the ro ...

Tue Oct 22, 2019 4:21 am • 9 Replies • 6556 Views

HELP: Stuffies after breakup-What to do?

Hell no. Those are your friends/babies! They aren’t of great monetary value and I doubt he has any need for them. If he was going to be an ass enough to ask for them back Id put their cash value in an ...

Tue Oct 08, 2019 12:04 am • 9 Replies • 3887 Views

HELP: Stuffies after breakup-What to do?

Hell no. Those are your friends/babies! They aren’t of great monetary value and I doubt he has any need for them. If he was going to be an ass enough to ask for them back Id put their cash value in an ...

Mon Oct 07, 2019 7:11 pm • 9 Replies • 3887 Views

Poems

a song in the front yard
BY GWENDOLYN BROOKS

I’ve stayed in the front yard all my life.
I want a peek at the back
Where it’s rough and untended and hungry weed grows.
A girl gets sick of a r ...

Mon Oct 07, 2019 3:15 am • 8 Replies • 5764 Views

Talk to your organizers

I have social anxiety, which comes in many forms. For me, I wouldn’t have a problem going to a play party with my Sir (have done this a few times now) but would feel VERY uncomfortable if I had to int ...

Mon Oct 07, 2019 3:04 am • 9 Replies • 3887 Views

What to do?

@pi Sharing my Sir is a hard limit for me and I have “truly submitted”. To suggest otherwise would be to suggest that any sub with limits hasn’t truly submitted.

I also don’t agree that what he doe ...

Tue Oct 01, 2019 8:08 pm • 29 Replies • 12874 Views

What to do?

There is nothing wrong with being monogamous and not wanting or being ok with sharing your partner. We spend a lot of time worrying about poly-shaming but it’s just as important to understand that the ...

Tue Oct 01, 2019 4:15 pm • 29 Replies • 12874 Views

thuddy or stingy

Thuddy for me as well.

I enjoy both but I haven’t met a thuddy toy I didn’t like but have met some stingy ones (wooden paddles and hairbrushes) that I don’t love.

Sun Sep 29, 2019 7:34 am • 17 Replies • 10328 Views