Online Vs Face to Face - Relationship

I've been in both only online and online with in person. I don't think you really ever really know a person if it's online only. I do think it's a great way to start communication with likes and disli ...

Sun Jun 21, 2020 7:45 pm • 26 Replies • 8741 Views

Advice for first munch?

I went to my first munch last month and had a great time. Everyone was very welcoming and conversation flowed easily. All sorts of topics within BDSM were talked about. Nothing personal like jobs or f ...

Fri Feb 07, 2020 8:06 am • 11 Replies • 4389 Views

Insights on my new agreement

There is so much information missing that it is actually impossible to give useful advice. With that being said...You two need a more detailed contract and then stick to it. If you end up having issue ...

Sat Dec 28, 2019 6:56 am • 13 Replies • 7149 Views

What Submissives Want: Ladies, What is something that a Dom/Daddy/Master will do that you find abso

Love, respect and the fact he's my best friend makes it all happen. Easy peasy.

Sat Dec 14, 2019 5:07 pm • 8 Replies • 3818 Views

Defiance

I'm not naturally a defiant person but I think for most people in and out of a D/s relationship, defiance comes from their initial reaction and acting on it without thinking first. Emotions are diffic ...

Mon Nov 11, 2019 2:32 am • 7 Replies • 2797 Views

Enamored Dominant or Just a Lunatic?

No,no,no! Even if this is the type of dynamic you crave, it takes weeks or months to build up the trust to hand yourself over to a Dom. We've all been in online relationships that over this time perio ...

Sat Nov 02, 2019 6:15 pm • 95 Replies • 33304 Views

How does “strictly online” work?

Please keep in mind that you only get out as much as you put in. I've had 2 online Doms before my Sir. The first was brief and really most of the time I don't count it. The connection just wasn't ther ...

Fri Jul 19, 2019 7:41 pm • 11 Replies • 8171 Views

Training - Level of importance

I think the word training can be perceived in a few different ways. We have one couple here who openly talks about different trainings on different nights of the week. To me that's more of a scheduled ...

Wed Jul 17, 2019 6:31 pm • 6 Replies • 4445 Views

Remote vibes

I'm definitely interested in this since my Sir and I are 3000 miles apart. He gave me the task of finding one we can use. I can't wait to see feedback. I did find this one that looks perfect.
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Wed Jul 17, 2019 5:52 am • 17 Replies • 9258 Views

Trust

It's being patient and allowing yourself to get through all the ones not right for you without getting overly discouraged. Very few people find the One first time around. I truly believe this is possi ...

Sun Jul 07, 2019 8:17 pm • 14 Replies • 6033 Views