What is a Protector?

When a partner begins to look out for the well being of you, and you accept their ability and offer to do so, that partner is a protector. This protection manifests as physical protection, advice on l ...

Tue Aug 06, 2019 1:51 am • 10 Replies • 6874 Views

Who pays for what?

As far as my dynamics go, my subs are allowed to buy anything they wish, as long as it does not violate any standing order (dietary, clothing, overall financial restrictions, etc.)
When my subs are w ...

Mon Aug 05, 2019 11:07 pm • 15 Replies • 12662 Views

I'm obsessed with dangerous things...

This is fairly common in kink, from my experience.

Humans typically have some level of attraction to the rush of adrenaline that comes with perceived danger.
The trust involved in a dynamic, knowi ...

Sun Aug 04, 2019 7:33 pm • 17 Replies • 11645 Views

Dynamic change

"If a dynamic changes can both parties find their way back to each other?"

Of course. In reality, absolutes simply do not exist; and we, as humans, are gifted with the capacity for excessively com ...

Sun Aug 04, 2019 6:33 pm • 1 Replies • 2143 Views

How do I know

From my experience as a Dom with a large number of subs and potential subs over the last decade (I am poly and encourage an atmosphere of exploration, so some of my connections are short and sweet, ot ...

Sat Aug 03, 2019 5:13 pm • 14 Replies • 8544 Views