Protection

I’ve also heard of this thing, or at least two ways for submissives to get protection:
Submissives often time talk to each other, give eachother advice, and also warn them when someone is bad news. ...

Sat Apr 13, 2019 4:11 pm • 21 Replies • 10453 Views

Question for both submissives and dominants about communication

Myself, I've always been the one to sort of initiate conversations. However, i think a good sign of interest is if they are returning to you. I like brats, and as such at times that takes a while to e ...

Sat Apr 13, 2019 7:02 am • 42 Replies • 24449 Views

Time travel

Man: if I could do that I’d tell myself sooo many things, not just regarding to my first experience in bdsm, but all around my experience in life.

As far as bdsm: I’d tell myself when it came to “A ...

Fri Apr 12, 2019 10:04 pm • 19 Replies • 11631 Views

Things you wished you knew when you started out?

That safewords exist for a reason.

Fri Apr 12, 2019 6:55 pm • 32 Replies • 15534 Views

Clarification

I'll try to put my two cents in. Also, If you want a more experienced input I can send it off to my mentor as well.

Most of my outlet before finally joining the community was through RP. The big th ...

Fri Apr 12, 2019 7:25 am • 9 Replies • 2913 Views

Just a simple question...

To me, since I’m so logically wired, I would give you the literally definition:

But! For what it has been for me , it is a journey where I am finding myself. I am delving deeper into who I am, and ...

Fri Apr 12, 2019 7:05 am • 17 Replies • 5972 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

Wisedom is the greatest gift anyone can have, king Solomon was the wisest man in the land at one point. It is much more than knowledge, it is much more than book smarts, it’s thinking before you act. ...

Fri Apr 12, 2019 2:56 am • 267 Replies • 108062 Views

Question about knowing when someone is right for you?

That’s the most heinous thing to do to someone. You put yourself on the spot by sending a picture to someone, and they respond by not communicating. You should find someone that accepts you for you, y ...

Thu Apr 11, 2019 8:53 pm • 16 Replies • 7247 Views

Question about knowing when someone is right for you?

That’s actually what I did with my previous, discussed it clearly and openly. It made it less weird, and awkward.

Thu Apr 11, 2019 6:36 pm • 16 Replies • 7247 Views

Question about knowing when someone is right for you?

I posted it on my profile.

Thu Apr 11, 2019 2:22 am • 16 Replies • 7247 Views