Writing about bdsm when you are inexperienced

To begin, you can always look into local BDSM clubs in your area. Go to munches (These are public gatherings where people of the community may go to a restaurant or an event to mingle.) or attend a du ...

Thu Oct 01, 2020 3:36 pm • 23 Replies • 7105 Views

In one sentence, describe what your submission or Dominance is.

My submission:
The taming of something wild by gentle hand and softened word.

Tue Sep 22, 2020 3:56 am • 61 Replies • 16408 Views

Lets talk about abusers and how to spot them.

As an addition to my last post - I'd like to avoid the debate on if IRL vs Online relationships are real, or not.
That has nothing to do with my original post- and I feel it's detailing this topic.

Tue Sep 08, 2020 3:40 pm • 22 Replies • 7719 Views

Lets talk about abusers and how to spot them.

First of all, when one wishes to point out something, don't write a fucking novel.

I know how to spot an abuser, and I simply blocked those fucks.

I do not generally meet people I find "online" ...

Tue Sep 08, 2020 3:36 pm • 22 Replies • 7719 Views

Lets talk about abusers and how to spot them.

I said this in a PM, but I'll repeat this all here too.

Everyone is allowed to their own opinion, and I welcome everyone's viewpoints. Even those that opposes mine.

I comprised my post because I ...

Tue Sep 08, 2020 12:46 am • 22 Replies • 7719 Views

Lets talk about abusers and how to spot them.

Yeah, it wasn't until AFTER I got out of mine did I really stop and see everything and went "Oh damn..."

I'm glad you're out of it Karyn, and now- you have those tools in your "kit" while venturin ...

Sun Sep 06, 2020 2:26 am • 22 Replies • 7719 Views

Lets talk about abusers and how to spot them.

🚩🚩 If you think someone is an abuser, or you experienced someone on TheCage who you feel is abusive. DO NOT expose them here in this forum. Do not name drop, do not link profiles, etc. If you're havin ...

Sun Sep 06, 2020 2:21 am • 22 Replies • 7719 Views

Passive or Active Submission?

Sorry for the random response- following along. This is interesting to me.

Sat Sep 05, 2020 2:39 am • 8 Replies • 2635 Views

Is there such a role as a "toy"?

I'll be honest, I read the first post and I'm not fully awake yet - I haven't read the entire thread. So this response is to the very 1st post made: I'll sum it up really simple.
Horny. Net. Geek. ...

Thu Aug 13, 2020 3:20 pm • 66 Replies • 22801 Views

Calling all ddlg, all the variations of, and caregivers

Feeling their stress when you can't be with them.

I get this. No bueno.

Cheap and toxic toys.

Sad face...

An existential fear of waking up in a world with no pork products.

Oh no, sl ...

Mon Jul 27, 2020 6:02 pm • 14 Replies • 5654 Views