MFM

a thruple (which is technically 2 women 1 man.)

Whut? Why on Earth would "thruple" be gendered? It's just a portmanteau of "three" and "couple." It means any relationship of three people.

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Wed Jun 23, 2021 6:15 am • 9 Replies • 3566 Views

Doms wearing restraints? Curious what others think

The way I see it, someone who has the self-awareness to know what they want and the confidence to build relationships and scenes custom tailored to their own unique passions is doing a better job at d ...

Sat Jun 12, 2021 5:57 pm • 7 Replies • 3989 Views

best resources

Here are books that are available:

https://www.dropbox.com/linkToShittyPageFullOfStolenBooksRemoved

Stop stealing books. Stop sharing web pages that encourage stealing books.

Tue Jun 08, 2021 7:45 pm • 11 Replies • 3395 Views

best resources

Yikes! Google can serve up some pretty awful misinformation when you ask it for kink resources.

Here's my getting-started resource list:
http://www.consensualdominance.com/resources/

Sun Jun 06, 2021 9:16 pm • 11 Replies • 3395 Views

Consent

I've learned different levels of understanding of consent at different times.

When I was little I had one parent who would bully me into doing what they said, and another who would talk things thro ...

Thu Jun 03, 2021 7:00 pm • 7 Replies • 2056 Views

Perfect Match(the Unicorn )/ Or several magical creatures

The perfect is the enemy of the good.

Partnerships aren't found, they're built. To get a great relationship, start with someone with whom you're pretty well compatible and commit, together, to buil ...

Wed Jun 02, 2021 2:15 am • 9 Replies • 3764 Views

I need clarification please

I dunno why someone in that other conversation used the word "abuse." You'd have ask them.

I don't think that unicorn hunting is always abusive. I do think that very often the arrangement *isn't* c ...

Mon May 24, 2021 7:37 am • 10 Replies • 3931 Views

I need clarification please

You could say that a unicorn simply means a bi woman open to dating a couple.

But there's a lot more connotation loaded behind the word.

A unicorn is the "hot bi babe" that so many het couples a ...

Sun May 23, 2021 10:04 pm • 10 Replies • 3931 Views

Professional Dominatrix

Absolutely nothing wrong with patronizing a pro.

Prices should be agreed up front. Tipping is customary.

Negotiation of what's going to happen should be done before the session begins. Don't be ...

Mon May 17, 2021 1:31 am • 6 Replies • 2778 Views

little but not young?

Plenty lots of people enjoy a parent/child flavor to their relationships without fantasizing about the person in the filial role being any younger than their actual age or having them act in childlike ...

Fri May 14, 2021 2:26 am • 10 Replies • 3808 Views