So… anyone here have advice on how to make your own bdsm toys?

You can make an armbinder out of a pair of sweatpants/pajamas. Thread the head through one leg, pull it all the way down over the neck and under the chin. Put both arms through the other leg (without ...

Fri Nov 24, 2023 11:48 pm • 16 Replies • 2393 Views

One Month. How About You?

4 years now. Kinda wish there were more people in their 20s on here, lol. Learned that kink is applicable both as a fantasy, and as a conduit for understanding of a relationship. And also as a damned ...

Thu Nov 23, 2023 11:19 pm • 15 Replies • 1982 Views

What Is A Common Misconception About You?

All of my friends and family (and half the men over 30 on this site) think I'm gay :'(
Or at least, the ones I don't hide my fashion sense from. I'm very straight, it's just more comfortable for me ...

Mon Nov 06, 2023 6:33 am • 35 Replies • 3905 Views

Do nice guys finish last even in kink??

Well there are legal protections against discrimination in hiring processes that prevent that, there are no such obligations for women considering whether they want to be in a relationship with you. ...

Mon Jun 12, 2023 9:11 am • 37 Replies • 4862 Views

Big penis humiliation..?

"what aspects do you even comment on to make it humiliating?" I haven't done it lol but maybe something like this -
"You've got all of this and you still can't do anything?/can't fuck?"
"Why do yo ...

Mon Jun 12, 2023 8:06 am • 14 Replies • 3416 Views

Do nice guys finish last even in kink??

I think you're reading into it a little too much, if someone turns you down both without ghosting and without directly insulting some part of you, she's (A) compassionate enough towards you to not wan ...

Mon Jun 12, 2023 7:50 am • 37 Replies • 4862 Views

Is it really that difficult…

I get about a 6:1 ratio of male dominants (vs. women) sending me the dumbest shit despite being straight. Men

Thu May 18, 2023 2:46 pm • 25 Replies • 4374 Views

Feminism: Has it gone too far?

I, for one, would not mind more dominant women. Hopefully the upwards trend continues.

That and, kinda dumb in my opinion that masculinity and femininity are inherently associated with the male an ...

Tue May 16, 2023 6:57 am • 27 Replies • 5038 Views

Need advice on whether wife’s new Dom is shady.

To answer your questions in the original post, no, none of this sounds like healthy dom behavior. The list of work (ai art store, books, etc.) you mention are also pretty dire sounding to me - those a ...

Tue Feb 21, 2023 7:24 pm • 37 Replies • 6333 Views

Need advice on whether wife’s new Dom is shady.

Your candidness about this is really impressive, first off. Secondly, with only the context given here, this sounds like an absolutely awful, cruel move by your wife to just up and cheat on you? I'm c ...

Tue Feb 21, 2023 6:13 pm • 37 Replies • 6333 Views