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Am I cut out for this?

There’s an old parable about a frog and a scorpion that provides a valuable lesson. As the story goes, the scorpion wanted to get across a lake. Because scorpions can’t swim, it asked a frog to transp ...

Tue Oct 27, 2020 2:35 am • 20 Replies • 9583 Views

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IowaDom

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Femdom

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Am I cut out for this?

132

Levels of submission / dominace

I read a lot of profiles / personal ads / blogs where people who are not in a dynamic speak to the level of Dominance or submission they are seeking in a potential mate. Now I do understand that a per ...

Mon Oct 26, 2020 7:01 pm • 0 Replies • 1568 Views

Author

IowaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Levels of submission / dominace

133

I am a virgin, but I still know that I'm submissive..

There is a thread not too far back on helping a newbie find a Dom ... and I totally agree with the above posts, it IS something you will remember later in life, make it worth remembering

Fri Oct 23, 2020 5:12 pm • 5 Replies • 4218 Views

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IowaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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I am a virgin, but I still know that I'm submissive..

134

Intro Question

Here is what I tend to use on The Cage. Now, I am not a sub, but I cannot see why some or all of this might not work for you!

1. You get a message
A. Deal killers - these messages should r ...

Thu Oct 22, 2020 4:25 pm • 15 Replies • 6404 Views

Author

IowaDom

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Intro Question

135

Non BDSM moral dilemma....HELP!?

Once trust is lost, you are just trying to bail the water out of the boat. Because no trust means no trust with your well being, emotional state, or as the caretaker of the heart. Without that, the ...

Thu Oct 22, 2020 8:31 am • 20 Replies • 6777 Views

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IowaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Non BDSM moral dilemma....HELP!?

136

Non BDSM moral dilemma....HELP!?

@IowaDom and Sunshinegirl
Omgoodness, your responses are on point and so insightful. I realize now I'm not necessarilly experiencing so much of a moral dilemma as I am having an emotional response f ...

Thu Oct 22, 2020 7:11 am • 20 Replies • 6777 Views

Author

IowaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Non BDSM moral dilemma....HELP!?

137

Non BDSM moral dilemma....HELP!?

Nothing good ever came from getting involved in somebody else's marriage, friend, foe, or stranger, does not matter. Besides, nothing would change other than the severity of the stress for your frien ...

Thu Oct 22, 2020 5:43 am • 20 Replies • 6777 Views

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IowaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Non BDSM moral dilemma....HELP!?

138

Solitary BDSM ideas

Yes Laura
But lush (ok ... Lovense by company name) makes a remote control vibrator for about every occasion .. including one for the Prostate that the OP might find useful

https://www.love ...

Thu Oct 22, 2020 12:16 am • 7 Replies • 8310 Views

Author

IowaDom

Forum

Gay BDSM

Topic

Solitary BDSM ideas

139

Solitary BDSM ideas

Get a lush vibrator, and wear it to work, give him control of it

Wed Oct 21, 2020 10:10 pm • 7 Replies • 8310 Views

Author

IowaDom

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Gay BDSM

Topic

Solitary BDSM ideas

140

A little bit lost and worried

Good stuff

Wed Oct 21, 2020 2:45 pm • 59 Replies • 27146 Views

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IowaDom

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Transgender & Nonbinary

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A little bit lost and worried