Would you ever tell them?

They know, but have no interest in details or being part of it.

Sun Oct 27, 2019 3:55 am • 58 Replies • 18606 Views

Mind Play

No.

Sat Oct 26, 2019 7:42 pm • 55 Replies • 27396 Views

Mind Play

I like mind play too, but I have to be careful. I'm afraid I would like it too much, and that can be dangerous. I keep a lid on what I will and will not say or do, and when I will and will not do it ...

Sat Oct 26, 2019 6:43 am • 55 Replies • 27396 Views

The dominants guide

There is no explicit right or wrong way. You and your partner need to slowly struggle through learning more about each others likes and dislikes. Eventually over the course of time. You will develop y ...

Fri Oct 25, 2019 12:23 am • 6 Replies • 3337 Views

Couple new to bdsm. Best way to learn

Try ABE's book BDSM FOR BEGINERS. Go to barnes and noble another book store and do a basic search.

Thu Oct 24, 2019 5:25 pm • 3 Replies • 2697 Views

A Beginner into exhibitionism

Here is a suggestion for you and your partner. Wear a plain t-shirt start with dark colors move slowly toward white. Also wear leggings same with colors. Do not wear bra or panties. Show camel toe ...

Thu Oct 24, 2019 11:57 am • 15 Replies • 10456 Views

Conflict. How does your dynamic handle it?

Sometime two perfectly rational people are great, but when you mix the two they go completely crazy. Then the only adult thing to do is for both parties to walk in different directions. This happene ...

Thu Oct 24, 2019 1:41 am • 3 Replies • 3636 Views

Enamored Dominant or Just a Lunatic?

I'm glad your mother will be there to vet him. While my family is known for it's short engagements, for our style it's an even more dangerous move. Don't accept any ring until you've run him through ...

Thu Oct 24, 2019 1:30 am • 95 Replies • 36868 Views

Something different (updated)

Ok, I've thought it through an owl. I read constantly, think unceasingly, and little bit stuffy.

Wed Oct 23, 2019 7:23 am • 31 Replies • 11359 Views

Something different (updated)

If I were a dog I would be a basset hound. However another animal I haven't thought it through yet.

Wed Oct 23, 2019 6:55 am • 31 Replies • 11359 Views