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Posts by Solace(dom male)

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Dick pics

Hello Villanelle,

Could you please direct me and others of this topic to guidelines that prohibit this sort of behavior?

It appears to be a healthy read for us all, and when I searched I could n ...

Fri Jan 13, 2023 12:04 am • 76 Replies • 18020 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Dick pics

162

Approach to finding relationship

My apologies, it seems I've been unclear and have failed to include details. To clarify something I believe has been alarmingly implied, I neither think you, tallslenderguy, nor myself intend to say t ...

Tue Jan 10, 2023 10:46 pm • 10 Replies • 3548 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Approach to finding relationship

163

Approach to finding relationship

Good post. While I may not be vocal about it I enjoy your writing and character.

Your opening paragraphs express that in general people leave love to chance and lack a concrete definition of it. I ...

Tue Jan 10, 2023 7:38 am • 10 Replies • 3548 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Approach to finding relationship

164

How do I get to where they are?

If you want the world to change you have to be the first one to. Its a silly little quote but essentially if you want your husband to learn how to be dominant in the relationship he needs to receive s ...

Fri Dec 23, 2022 1:15 am • 13 Replies • 5181 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

How do I get to where they are?

165

Highly experienced sub struggling on how to introduce, educate non-bdsm fiancé wanting to learn.

He needs time. Two decades of catch up is a big ask. It also sounds like you may nit be the best mentor for him at this time. Focus on subjects.

Try writing down a list of terms, subjects, acts or ...

Thu Dec 22, 2022 6:52 pm • 24 Replies • 7778 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Highly experienced sub struggling on how to introduce, educate non-bdsm fiancé wanting to learn.

166

Edging/holding back an orgasm

The general response here is to distract oneself or focus on something less arousing. While I cannot speak for others this is not my tact. I actually focus on my manhood, and while it may sound ridicu ...

Sun Nov 13, 2022 7:27 pm • 18 Replies • 5430 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Edging/holding back an orgasm

167

New sub

To be concise, my issue which I sought to correct was not that a blanket statement was made. It was to correct a statement that helped neither her, or other people when dealing with men.

Chastisin ...

Sun Oct 30, 2022 5:22 am • 48 Replies • 11524 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

New sub

168

New sub

I'mMe,

I'm going to need you to detail further this statement, my wits seem dull when speaking with you.

"I see it in reverse on here coming from Doms towards the entire spectrum s-types and I ...

Sat Oct 29, 2022 5:28 am • 48 Replies • 11524 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

New sub

169

End of a dynamic

In my life, its has always helped me to take a break from dating. It doesn't have to be long. After I recover from the rough feelings, I've found the most healthy things have always been a dramatic ch ...

Fri Oct 28, 2022 8:19 pm • 6 Replies • 3847 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Untied

Topic

End of a dynamic

170

Update from previous post (red flags or just not cut out for it)

Good for you darling. I hope for you the very best relationship in the future. I pray this has not discouraged you, and you still have the courage to reach out for the compassion and love that is out ...

Fri Oct 28, 2022 8:02 pm • 9 Replies • 2877 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Update from previous post (red flags or just not cut out for it)