Does being a submissive in BDSM translate to being a follower in normal life?

No. It's decided by you.

Ask around, like you just have, you'll find that opinions vary. Which means there is no factual definition of a sub or Dom, and what they must be/do.

I have met girls w ...

Tue Mar 10, 2020 7:42 pm • 14 Replies • 9724 Views

Possibly a stupid question...

I wouldn't worry about the titles, unless you truly feel a need to define who you are to others.

In my small view of this world, you are the Dominant one in the relationship. I don't care what the ...

Wed Feb 26, 2020 9:13 pm • 7 Replies • 5803 Views

"rules"

I believe I don't enforce many "core" rules. Core being rules which are common between subs of mine. I enforce referring to me as Sir with a capital for full respect of the title, and I enforce trust ...

Wed Feb 26, 2020 9:04 pm • 13 Replies • 8944 Views

What should you do if you catch your new Dom in a lie

Decide. However you must. But decide if you trust in your Dom. That is to say that you trust in reasons for his actions. If you cant, then politely ask to talk about it or leave.

As it had been st ...

Wed Feb 05, 2020 7:15 pm • 30 Replies • 16690 Views

concerning boundaries, Dom to Dom

Education mostly. Each problem fixed comes with a lesson for them to remember. I am building and nurturing more capable individuals. Punishments are dealt for failure to remember or follow past lesson ...

Fri Jan 31, 2020 5:02 pm • 10 Replies • 6867 Views

Exhausting

I struggle with fitting inside or using the boxes that others make, therefore my perspective will be of dubious value.

However, it may be that your style clashes strongly with others. I say that t ...

Mon Jan 20, 2020 7:32 pm • 17 Replies • 8709 Views

Instadoms

MstrMac, a sin of mine is occasionally sloth. I have been meaning to post in the forums a request for these resources. Rather regularly I have brand new, often young girls reaching out to me.

It i ...

Thu Jan 16, 2020 8:11 pm • 10 Replies • 6557 Views

Instadoms

I believe this can get heated very fast. The host of this post, our wonderful VanDom, makes important points. Of which my take away is that Doms must be knowledable about their actions and responsibil ...

Wed Jan 15, 2020 9:02 pm • 10 Replies • 6557 Views

Hot take: Dommes are allowed to be insecure sometimes.

I would like to take what I believe is the higher path, but I'm afraid I cannot. My narrow experience in this life has only permitted me to see that as the begining of the end to these relationships. ...

Mon Dec 30, 2019 9:03 pm • 28 Replies • 13097 Views

I Kinda Need Help... (I had no clue where to put this so its in generally speaking)

I won't add anything go significant value but I can add a possibly unpopular oppinion.

I would suggest you don't ask your partner what he thinks about them, but rather for them to try it. See some ...

Mon Dec 23, 2019 6:43 pm • 14 Replies • 8766 Views