Invisibility / status indicators

Re: forum/blog posts in stealth mode-
Those things are visible whether the poster is online or not. Granted, an immediate reply will clue readers in that you're online, but that's your call.

Tue Apr 13, 2021 3:16 pm • 12 Replies • 3644 Views

Does monogamy exist in the D/s world?

It's difficult enough to find a monogamous partner in the vanilla world. Try throwing kink into the mix, and it's even more difficult. I think this has brought about a greater acceptance of the ideas ...

Sun May 31, 2020 4:09 am • 70 Replies • 24164 Views

Different beliefs, specifically Witchcraft/Paganism

@SchrodingersDinosaur That's actually a fair point. Thank you for that. I guess I had assumed that those kinds of talks were put off, but that's way better. Thanks again.

Actually, best to put pote ...

Mon May 11, 2020 1:59 pm • 24 Replies • 8349 Views

Different beliefs, specifically Witchcraft/Paganism

One might be able to require or forbid practices, but not beliefs. That's called brain-washing.

Wed Apr 22, 2020 6:25 pm • 24 Replies • 8349 Views

Kink lifestyle attracts many bullshiters just looking for pussy

#bigandtall: No one here said it was *all* males. Sure, you,and most of us, don't act like that. And if everyone acted like us, there would be no need for this thread. Unfortunately, there *are* peopl ...

Sat Oct 12, 2019 4:24 am • 44 Replies • 25313 Views

Kink lifestyle attracts many bullshiters just looking for pussy

For persons of every stripe dealing with this:
The block button is your friend. You do not owe anyone " at least the courtesy of a reply". Sending such a message is rude to start with, and trying to ...

Fri Oct 11, 2019 1:30 am • 44 Replies • 25313 Views

How do I figure out if I am a Dom, sub, or something else?

@BigNNerdy: If he have to stick labels on things, it sounds to me as if "bottom" is a better fit for you than "sub". It is entirely possible to consistently be on the receiving end without giving up a ...

Mon Sep 02, 2019 7:09 pm • 12 Replies • 9716 Views

How do I figure out if I am a Dom, sub, or something else?

Definitely seconding (or perhaps thirding, at this point) the suggestion to seek out a local munch. It is helpful to learn about other people structure their relationships/dynamics, and no amount of ...

Mon Sep 02, 2019 7:02 pm • 12 Replies • 9716 Views

In your opinion..how fast is too fast??

Plenty of predators (of all genders,roles, etc.) always on the prowl for some fresh meat. "Sub frenzy" is certainly a thing, and somthing a decent and honorable Dom wouldn't take advantage off. The ad ...

Tue Aug 27, 2019 12:54 am • 13 Replies • 9408 Views

What does Politics have with being a “good” sub or friend

 As with so many things in this lifestyle, it is a matter of expressing personal preferences. Politics matters to you? Say so. If it is a deal-breaker, get it out of the way up front, so you aren't wa ...

Mon Aug 19, 2019 7:00 pm • 21 Replies • 7462 Views