Masochistic little females

I knew what I was before I had a name for it. But I believe my masochism was learned and not innate. I grew up with a physically and sexually abusive father, so the kink lifestyle has been a wonderful ...

Sat Nov 13, 2021 4:00 pm • 6 Replies • 2865 Views

How to find the right DOM

I have been searching almost five years, and I have encountered mostly doms who are in a boring vanilla marriage and just want to have online fun. While they believe their lies are harmless, getting m ...

Wed Sep 22, 2021 3:30 pm • 42 Replies • 19546 Views

Is Anal Play Taboo For Young, Straight Subs?

I am a hetero submissive female with a very strong personality, and I get asked by doms to peg them all the time. Granted it's not something that comes out until trust has been established, and these ...

Sun Aug 15, 2021 11:59 pm • 76 Replies • 38266 Views

Questions for the brat-loving doms

A sub will brat to look for boundaries, which means her Dom may need to be more firm and consistent with her. Women develop elaborate tests to weed out beta males, bratting being just one of many.
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Sat Jan 23, 2021 10:56 pm • 2 Replies • 2710 Views

Slave or Submissive

I am a sub, with a slave heart. I have been in D/s relationships where I lived with my Dom and our dynamic was in every facet of our lives, both in and out of the bedroom. However... I own a home, run ...

Mon Apr 13, 2020 7:07 am • 15 Replies • 7302 Views

Just 4 fun: Sexy word game. Rules: Must be a sexy word.

Groan

Fri Jan 31, 2020 5:56 pm • 6681 Replies • 1290239 Views

thuddy or stingy

Thuddy.

I like my pain ramped up slow and methodically, like a massage only much more intense. Take me just past what I can bear, then keep me there until I process it, then ramp up a little furth ...

Wed Jan 22, 2020 4:08 pm • 17 Replies • 11155 Views

Finding your special person

Also, coming from a 50yo pre-Internet person, I find the online thing a bit backwards. Especially when looking for D/s when it’s all about chemistry and power. Back in our 20s we used to meet someone ...

Wed Jan 15, 2020 10:55 pm • 31 Replies • 12939 Views

Finding your special person

I’ve only been searching a short while, after having been through two vanilla marriages before that.. and of course multiple relationships in my early years. The problem I have in the few years I have ...

Wed Jan 15, 2020 10:44 pm • 31 Replies • 12939 Views

BDSM in music

Depeche Mode.. Master and Servant, Welcome to My World, In Your Room, Strangelove, The Sweetest Condition

Fri Nov 22, 2019 4:30 am • 72 Replies • 28985 Views